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2004-04-28
Name: Ashra



Hi,
Thx a lot 4 the immediate reply..
Suni,
As for Tanaaz diet :
Morning
breastmilk at 7.30 am
1 packet of rice cereal mixed with breastmilk,(10.00 a.m)
after this 2 hrs nap then she eats veggie that i make at home,like carrot,sweet potatoe,green beans,this green beans she dont like to eat so wut i do is,i try to mix it up with cereal that way she takes better..at 1.30pm
again milk(bf)at 3.00
2 hrs nap again then she gets up for another feeding..for dinner i give fruits like mashed banana,apple,pear etc
then back to bed by 9.00pm
this is how her routine is going so far..
The recent problem is as soon as she eats she passes stool..she does that at every feed..i am so worried ,if she keeps on do this then wut will be left in her tummy..At yes'd appt i even mention this to Dr..but she doesnt give a proper response..actually yes'd we took appt with diff Dr as Tanaaz was due for her 6 mon shots & we didnt get appt with the regular doc for next 1 month so we thought by then it will be too late..
Actually yes'd we took her to Desi doctor,i just dont understand y they behave so different with their own ppl...she was kind of Physic i guess,wut ever i ask she never gives me staright answer..she just scared me as much as possible,by saying all kind of Bakwaas,like do u she her dress growing out,do see her play,she needs special care so make her routine,by waking her up at 6.00 am,& so on..i guess she must have byhearted & just replied .also she asked us y didnt we come to her be4..y did u go to that Dr..so on Be4 coming into the room she is suppose to read the file & come,after coming in she is asking everything to us..
Only prob is not gaining weight other than that she is very active,she rolls everywhere in room,she is sitting little bit by herself,she goos,she plays she does everything,like Radhika's Anu,Tanaaz also tore the sheet at Dr's office..so now my only goal is to make her gain weight..Actually we have taken another appt with the same Reg Dr again next week,let's see wut he says...As of the Milk Supply,i am producing more,cuz i still have engogerment some time,& i feel heavy ..

Radhika
As u said maybe genetic also plays around sometime,Both myself as well as Thanveer r very thin by nature ..both of us how much we eat we dont put weight..i am breastfeeding her directly so i donno how much oz's she is drink per feed..but she feeds only for 5 to 6 mins after that she no interest in feeding she just starts to play ,& keep her lips tight..how hard i try also no use..she gets distracted very soon..i sometimes pump the excess milk just to make me relieve..but she doesnt take bottle also,i have tried Avent sippy cup with that she only plays but doesnt seem to be drinking.anyway i have started as project now just need to implement it..

Ritu
I did discuss abt this with my Dr yes'd as said be4 in suni's reply the desi dr didnt give me proper answer,so i have taken an another appt with regular Dr..lets see wut he says...anyway thx a lot for making me little better...

after reading ur replies i feel lot better..afterall u r the only persons where i can share with..
give my kisses to Anu,Anouskha,Sahil & U all take care & have fun with the little ones
Ashra

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2004-04-29
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Anonymous Name: Manvi
Subject:  Hi



Ashra,
You r doing a good job and maintaining a nice routine don't worry too much about numbers but pay more attention to her activity&growthcurve pattern.
Just a suggestion from my side try cereal for bfast&dinner&snack time-fruits.Veggies give in combination with cereal&keep milk for sleeptimes&the rem feeds if any.Also it helps to chart on paper so u can gauge approx how her intake is and try pumping now and then to know how much u produce in 1 feed.
Don't worry that she feeds in 5 mins&then palys at this age baby learns to suck more effectively&drinks more in less time.
most imp trust your instincts you r already doing everything correctly,just follow her cues&listen to her.Good luck but do let us know how Tanaaz is doing!
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2004-04-29
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Anonymous Name: Suni
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Hi Ashra,

I think you are doing all the right things...just hang in there and Tanaaz will be just fine. Do let us know whether she drinks during her night sleep, probably you can feed her then too.
Otherwise, just enjoy her antics. She is an active baby and that is what finally matters.

Take Care
Suni
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2004-04-28
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Anonymous Name: Radhika
Subject:  Hi..



Hi AShra

Think u r doing all u can..maybe she is genetically small baby..have a friend who also has to to work hard to feed her baby..but keep trying to put in an extra spoon of solid, extra feeding..or feed whatever u pump later..
Track the time she is really hungry and eats well. then maybe the other times u can pump and keep it and feed her later, she has to learn to get used to the bottle and that will take time esp when they are at this age know a lot more than early stages.
U are doing much more ideally ..by cooking fruits/veggies at home, which is great. I do resort to jars often and have breastmilk and formula in her feedings, but didn't find them yucky as u did..except for formula taste.
We all do our best...I am sure u will find a way out , all moms do..just be patient/wait till ur doc appointment.

Take care. enjoy time with tanaaz.
Radhika
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2004-04-28
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Anonymous Name: Ritu
Subject:  Hi Asra



When is the doc's appointment ?
Take Care
Ritu
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