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hi my kid's 3yrs old suffering from very bad foodallergy and eczema with too much itching when c was 7 months old itself. now cs 3yrs old.no improvement now too.but not a hereditary one.v took many treatments at US,nothing works,v r at US.v totally stopped her solid food when c was almost 13months old. till now no solid foods,only formula milk.her blood test result is to bad,so dr. adviced not to give any food.v r eating without her knowledge at home daily. the prob now is that i've one small kid v r eating without her knowledge but for my second kid what i can do? so i put her at skool. at that time i feed my 2nd child.so only once a day my sec baby is eating. but there also prob. there they've snack time,lunch time so kids r eating at skool .what she can do at that time at skool? if at home means unable to feed my 2nd child,but really enjoys at skool,c likes to go to skool. i packed her fruit boldly for her at skool,but c got rashes,itching at skool. i dont know what to do? her ped is saying that c'll get cured after 6 yrs only. till that u shouldnt try even 1tsp of food ,fruits,vegetables, nothing,only c'll be at milk that too formula only.i take her inside bedroom then only my husband is eating ,then hes taking inside her, then only i'm eating. v r managing like that but what to do for 2nd child hes just 1yr old. v need good treatment for her too.dont know whats the soln for my first kid disease and c must be cured permanently whats the soln. v r indians.so nowadays no interested in cooking ,eating, life is too bad for us. just v r eating for survival v r totally upsetted nowadays becos she knows all things, understanding all things nowadays. sometimes c cry for food while i'm cooking. saying \";give me mommy,give me moomy\"; at those situation i too crying infront of her, my husband too feeling too bad on those v dont even eat even unknowingly her. whats the soln for this .pls help me. if any parents facing with kid like this please reply their treatment,managing kids like these.thanx a lot ! Sona replied. Hi,

Personally I dont have any idea about the treatment but would like to give you advise if possible meet any good homeopathic or Auruvedic doc. In this type of problem these treatments are really useful.
Also plz your post in the section of parents of babies \" health issues\" . might be u will get some more ideas there.

lots of best wishes for speedy recovery of your kid.

regards
sona Manee replied. Come back to india and get settle down in some humid city.It will definitely help.. hi replied. hello friend

i don't know about the treatment but after reading ur post, i thought like wirting something. i know as a parent it will be very hard for u to keep ur little grl away from foods. it is very difficult . BUT DON'T BE SAD ABD CRY IN FRONT OF HER. SHE ALSO WILL BECOME DEPRESSED. JUST ACCEPT THE FACT THAT SHE NOW HAS THIS ALLERGY SO TLL SHE BECOMES 3 YEARS OLD SHE HAS TO KEEP AWAY FROM THOSE THNGS WHICH S DOING HARM TO HER. DON'T BE SAD OR ANYTHING, JUST TALK TO HER AS ANORMAL THING. THERE LOTS OF KIDS WITH FOOD ALLERGY. TELL HER LOVINGLY, 'BETA, U HAVE THIS FOOD ALLERGY SO U CANNOT EAT LIKE OTHER KDS UNTIL U R CURED OF THIS. I THINK SO SHE WILL NOT BE DEPRESSED .
and i know for me, saying is easy. i know that dear. but may i say onething, in life we have to be bold and courageous. 'IF LIFE GIVES ME ONLY LEMONS I'LL MAKE LEMONADE OUT OF IT'. that should be our way. i'll pray for ur child.

make her brave , tell her a lot of kids r there who cannot eat all things. she is too young , i know. but as a mother give her all support and strength , that she could overcome this period. NEVER EVER CRY BEFORE HER. let her have full faith in u guys. let her think her parents know everything and they can sort out everthing. there is nothing to be sad.

U KNOW WHAT, OUR LIFE, WE HAVE TO LIVE, WE HAVE TO OVERCOME OUR PROBLEMS. SO ACCEPT IT. DON'T BE SAD.

also i'm wondering, is there no food that she can eat?

my son who is 5 have allergies.(not food). he'll be sneezing always durng fall and spring. but for about one year, i started giving him honey he is completely cured from that.
so, pray always dear friend. GOD CAN HELP US. really. i'll pray for ur little girl

lots of love and prayers