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2006-01-17

Name: catch_sg Hi all,
I am 28 yrs old and married for 2 years.my husband in 30 now.
we stay in UK and my hubby is in software so that deals with loads of mental stress and uncertainities abt where to settle down .. we keep moving from here and there. for the past 2years we moved from london to yorkshire and so on.. i am also working for a international bank and wont say its a stressful job but tiring for sure at times. but still we have started planning for a baby.. we r not using any protection for abt 7-8 months but never planned anything and with both of us working having sex was always a weekend thing so chances of conceiving was very less then.have started planning very recently.we have been trying for the past 2-3 months . we both love kids and want to have our own child. but havent been of any luck so far. when we speak with friends they tell us we sud immediately consult a doc as 3 months is long time and there mite be some problem with us. the general believe is u conceive the very first month or atleast the next month for sure and if u dont then there is some problem .thats quite scary actually.. we went to our local GP as well and she after listening to us said its too early to even do any testing on both of us.. we dont have any major health issues infact not any minor as well. we both r healthy and hearty so we need to wait for another 6-7 months before going back to her n to do any fertility test.
so am actually confused sud i wait or sud i consult another doc by next month and get myself and my hubby tested. i know am 28 and its high time i sud have a baby. talking with friends r making me more confused and u keep on getting so many suggestions and do this do that stuff and talking with parents means getting things complicated rite from the beginning coz they will also start worrying..
can u please suggest me something as what to do?? am actually getting a bit nervous and puzzled plus a bit depressed ad every time i am expecting and its not happening
thanks in advance.. pls reply as soon as possible
Catch_sg

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Hi all,
I am 28 yrs old and married for 2 years.my husband in 30 now.
we stay in UK and my hubby is in software so that deals with loads of mental stress and uncertainities abt where to settle down .. we keep moving from here and there. for the past 2years we moved from london to yorkshire and so on.. i am also working for a international bank and wont say its a stressful job but tiring for sure at times. but still we have started planning for a baby.. we r not using any protection for abt 7-8 months but never planned anything and with both of us working having sex was always a weekend thing so chances of conceiving was very less then.have started planning very recently.we have been trying for the past 2-3 months . we both love kids and want to have our own child. but havent been of any luck so far. when we speak with friends they tell us we sud immediately consult a doc as 3 months is long time and there mite be some problem with us. the general believe is u conceive the very first month or atleast the next month for sure and if u dont then there is some problem .thats quite scary actually.. we went to our local GP as well and she after listening to us said its too early to even do any testing on both of us.. we dont have any major health issues infact not any minor as well. we both r healthy and hearty so we need to wait for another 6-7 months before going back to her n to do any fertility test.
so am actually confused sud i wait or sud i consult another doc by next month and get myself and my hubby tested. i know am 28 and its high time i sud have a baby. talking with friends r making me more confused and u keep on getting so many suggestions and do this do that stuff and talking with parents means getting things complicated rite from the beginning coz they will also start worrying..
can u please suggest me something as what to do?? am actually getting a bit nervous and puzzled plus a bit depressed ad every time i am expecting and its not happening
thanks in advance.. pls reply as soon as possible
Catch_sg catch_sg replied. one more thing i forgot to mention is my periods were delayed by 7 days on dec. so i went for a pregnancy test but suddenly my periods started after 7 days the nurse told me that maybe u have conceived but it was not inplanted. so i dont know wht to do

2006-01-17

Name: catch_sg
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one more thing i forgot to mention is my periods were delayed by 7 days on dec. so i went for a pregnancy test but suddenly my periods started after 7 days the nurse told me that maybe u have conceived but it was not inplanted. so i dont know wht to do

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