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dear all,My 10 year old son is causing some problems which i want to discuss with you all.the complaint i often get from his school s that he is very talkative among the class ,while he is very shy and docile to teachers but he would stealthily play some prank due to which they call him very cunning.secondly we have 5-6 boys in our locality they dony let him play with them and they bully him while my son bullies another boy our next door neighbour whose son is mentally weak.he tries to beat up servants and their kids when iam out of sight,but later on they complain that he beats them or troubles them friends i dont know how to cope up with this problem when i ask any thing he lies or cooks up a story which later on turns out to be fake.we have a very negative enviroment at our house also the same old story of bad inlaws elena replied. Hi dear,
First dont panic. I think that this happens with every boy in this age.
Talk with him - but talk not like a mother, talk with him like a friend, try to understand what is in his soul, why he do this and be patient. Ask your husbant to talk with him too - they are men so it will be easy.
I am sure that everything will be ok soon,
Keep in touch

Elena