Hi girls,

Hope all are doing fine and busy with your little baby.I just wanted to know how each one of you are doing and how things are going on your side.Here is my update....
I am feeling little bit better now.My baby is trying to sleep in the night nowadays.She goes to sleep at 10:30 and wakes up at 1:30 or 2 to feed and then again she wakes up every hour till 7am.She sleeps the whole day and she plays with my hubby in the evening for 3-4 hrs.If she sees me or hears my voice then she opens her mouth and cries for milk.So she never leaves me to talk to her.Is your baby doing the same?...Now she is doing good.But she passes stool which is very watery.Sometimes when i change the diaper i can see her passing the stool in the consistancy of urine(she sprays it on me).Is it normal?.She also passes gas a lot.What must i do?.Other than this she is doing fine.she has put on some weight but she looks thin.We also had a naming function last week and as u all know we named her as sasmeta(everlaughing) and i call her as manasa in house.breast feeding is not very painful now

regarding my health....I have pain when i pass my urine.I did a urine test to see if i have an infection but it came out as normal.When i pass urine i don't feel anything.The place is numb.I have an appointment with the doctor next monday.
I also feel light headedness nowadays.I don't take any healthy food.I just drink 2 cups of milk daily and that's it.And simple food daily.I don't take greens and some veg as i think it will affect my baby.I feel very weak.I want to eat some thing healthy but iam very scared to eat everything.please tell me what you girls are eating and which food is not harmful to the baby.i think my condition will become worse as my mother in law is leaving next week to india.Now i look after the baby the whole day and she prepares food.But after she leaves i have to cook.I think i can manage.More over we are moving to boston from NY next week.So i have been busy this whole week in packing the things.My hubby is also not feeling well and so i do all the packing work.So i feel very tired and weak.I just wanted to share my worries with you girls.sorry for that...
okay girls
i will go and take some rest
take care
and my kisses to your sweet little baby
love from
kals

sumana replied. Hi girls,

Nice to hear that both of u are doing good with ur baby's.Kals try eating veggeis and fruits , coz u need strength as well as u have to produce milk for the baby....try one vegetable for couple of days...then if ur baby has gas then u start avoiding it....do that for all vegetables....so that u know which u can take and which u can avoid...
I think gas is a commom prob with all newborns...my son has this prob...it is very bad ...we just put mylicon drops for him...the doc says this prob will pass when he is 3 mths of age....
It is nice to know that ur baby's are following a definite pattern of being awake and sleep.....with him it is a new routine everyday.....
whole of last week he used to be awake from 4.00 in the eve to 12.00 midnight....
hi ashra....good to know that u are doing well with the baby....all the babies like to be held and cuddled....but yes it is difficult if there is nobody to help with baby...

ok..got to go now....
bye and take care,
sumana

Ashra replied. Hi Kals..
Itz good to hear frm u after so long...also good to hear that manasa is doing good.sorry to hear that u got to move at this time..hey y is ur MIL leaving this early?? she has got 6 mos stay right??anyway dont worry that u got to manage everything by urself.when u think of it it may sound hard but when u go thru by urself itz really easily.i got much experience regarding this..As of u know my aunty was here 4 the last 1 1/2 month.last week she got some urgent work so she has to go right frm then i am managing Tanaaz all by myself..she also sleeps the whole day ..hey u know wut Tanaaz schdule matches with manasa.she also sleeps around 10.30 & wakes up at 1 r 2for milk & diaper change then again goes back to sleep & wakes up at 8 ..yes'd was really hard for me cuz on tues she had hep b2 shot so yes'd she was little fuzzy & had feverish..so
she cudnt sleep & whole day i was having her on my lap.2day she is back to normal..she always needs someone to be held ,she doesnt like sleep down..this habit was made by my aunty all the time she keeps her held & now she got used to it..otherwise she is very understandable.again my aunt will be coming this weekend to stay with me until 27th of nov & she is also going to india for my cousin's marriage..she is very excited cuz after attending my wedding & after 3yrs she is going to ind so i cant stop her..when she was here she use to cook & take care of the baby ..so dont worry everything will be fine ..takecare
Ashra