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Due Date Club July 2005:Hi Priya & Arti
2006-06-23
Name: Amita



Priya,

I just want to make sure that you know that I am not hiding behind any such name as observer, well wisher, anc, xyz, silent reader, blah blah blah..as you are thinking. Whenever I write I write with my name. I don't need to hide my name whatsover.
I have stopped writing here..Frankly I read messages from more for a amusement reading than anything else.
Whenever I want to get a break from my work, I read to see how much free time these women have to bash each other, try to be supermom and simply trying to revolve their life's around making receipes for their little ones. Whatever happend to good old indian food for the kids:-).

I am too old to play this game on www and so good bye and good luck.

Arti:
If you happen to read this Glad to know that your son is enjoying his day care. He will get very sick for first three months or so, but things will get better from there.That has been my experience. And you will see how fast he will develop sociall.
Take care girls

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2006-06-24
#1
Anonymous Name: Arti
Subject:  Thanks Amita



That boosted my morale:). I am kind of liking his day-care. Nowadays he loves playing there so not that much worried now. Hopefully his immunity will develop soon as you said.
I love your directness Amita but it can hurt others as they may not like it. This world is full of diplomats and all over the world thats a very well liked way. Also I feel that if people share all kinds of stuff here and preparing variety of foods then I feel that it could be because they are passionate about it not because they have all the time in the world. I think you can always find the time to do things you feel most passionate and strongly about. Put a positive outlook towards everything and people will like you - not that you have to care about that but it just makes you feel good if people gives you genuine compliments rather than criticizing even if that comes from a person you least care about:)
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2006-06-26
#2
Anonymous Name: Seema
Subject:  Arti, Priya, Hetal,Amita and all



Arti, you are very mature in your language. I agree to what you say.i like your positive approach to things.
Priya, i think we should be open enough to accept the things that people share. Not all people over here are to bang us. Like arti said we should accept it with positive outlook, that is why we are here.
also these sites are hit by 100s of people, imagine what will happen if everyone starts feeling bad about the replies they get ! so come back with nice topics soon.
Hetal, I read your mesg to priya. You are one of those lucky people who are able to make a good group around you. By whatever you said, it is known that there are many members here who dont even care to login or participate. they are just here to read, sometimes comment or ask their own queries.
hetal, one thing is understood that everyones lifestyle, food, pockets are of different size. and we all can not be same.so comparing everyone here is of no use, nor its worth running after anyone. so if someone has shared that she has soft spot about something, next time just dont clarify things to her. thats so simple.
I think we all here shared so much information in detail that when it got too much, people started feeling sentimental about each comments or suggestions.
comeon guys, you all have been responsible for this group activeness. why is it that you all started having little mindsets just because someother unknown person keeps attacking you to create differences between you all.
be open,invite welcome eachothers comments.if it doesn suit you, try something else. why comment !
Amita,this time your mesg was unbelievable. but i dont understand onething about you, at one point you are after someone, other point you are again someother person. so in short,you login here just to comment !
and i dont know about you, but i would not mind trying recipes or things in a different way if its good for my baby. i would like to be a mom who wants to give my baby whatever best i can give.
whether after trying everyone tips and advices, i dont care even if people call me that i try to be supermom.
why not, to give your family best at your efforts is the pride i would like to take !

comeon girls, come back to fun to share. there is so much to talk and share about babies, why waste time in feeling bad about things that some unknown people write !please patch up :)
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2006-06-23
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Anonymous Name: Priya
Subject:  Sorry



Amita
Sorry for pinning finger on you. I admire you honesty thanks for letting me know. This board has become a amusement show revolving around one person. It is pathetic and half the ppl who come to defence are not heard off. Seems like it is one person defending themselvesd with diif names.
None knows anyone personally here so why make emails personal and get offeneded for others...weird. Amazing how one person can ghave a personal fanclub...
Anyways amita thanks for letting me know. You seem like a direct and good person. Sorry about past arguments.
Priya
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2006-06-23
#4
Anonymous Name: Hetal
Subject:  Priya



priya, tell me onething. when there were posts against me, did i ever call you saying that be at my side ? also i know you, sheetal and many other people over here to whom i might be talking once a while. some like jaya and dya, all whom i meet as well. remember my post when i moved to dallas,these people had replied to my email id saying they are in dallas and so we all meet ! and also i had put the same post in couple other boards too and so we have formed a group here and we all meet.
i havent told you or sheetal to be on my side, so the same way i havent told any other person not even jaya diya or anitha to speak for me or be at my part. we have shared good things and they have their own thinking. infact couple of them are senior to me, i cannot even tell them why you told that.
if you all are reading this, tell me if i have ever told you guys to support me or talk to me.
just answer my one ques.

this is what you have written saying -
""""Seems like it is one person defending themselvesd with diif names.
None knows anyone personally here so why make emails personal and get offeneded for others...weird. Amazing how one person can ghave a personal fanclub """"
did you mean its me !!! why you think i m interested to be the boss here when i m juggling with xams and stuffs... i was never even bothered to be uptodate here until you all asking things to me. now just because now someone is after you, i will not allow you to put this blame on me like that.
i dont have that much time to write all that about everyone.if you are not sure about things for someone, please dont blame it on someone whom you just think, it might be the person.

you doubted amita, she cleared, now you are doubting me,,so i m clearing..
you feel bad about some people offending you. these people who have already clarified that they had issues with you, even when i was not on this board ! i came too late on this board, i never knew of this board until i was 5 months pregnant. i haunt at babycenter or ivillage and couple other sites. also, to tell you frankly, i came pretty late her even after delivery..
i am tired of answering all unknowns or all the unnamed persons here.
i dont know how to convince people or run after them.
i have my own name and i have guts to talk to people directly on face for all kinds of discussion.just like the way i talked to you about cheese and other things. and m making it clear it was not to bash you..i dont want to again apologize for it.
take care, love to dylan.
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