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This is Sanjwali, from Mumbai,
My own family is very very modern, and here my in-laws are very dominating and orthodox type. I got love marriage. My husband has no problem with the jeans.
Very first time after 2 months of our marriage I wore jeans with the permission of my husband’s, but when I came backed I came to know that by MIM & FIL doesn’t want me to wear it, As I m working in MNC, all other girls wearing jeans and all and I fell very embarrass in front of everyone.

In my office we all ladies used to were jeans on Friday, I asked my MIL I will were jeans at least on Friday but she said NO. now my husband is also not supporting me because he can’t raise this issue in front of them becoz it wud make a quarrel in the home and he doesnt want tht, he says you ask mother and were it, I don’t have any problem.

What should I do yaar please suggest me.

Sanjwali
r replied. dear sanjwali...
when u r indipendednt ..why bother to even listen ..if u expect anybody sympathising u ..then u r wrong ..touchwood my inlaws r quite open about whatever i wear...and i look good in it too...
see in front of teh mirror do u look odd out of shape if so dont wear ..if its ok ..close ur ears and do what u feel is goo Mitali replied. My son got married 8 year ago and in general we are quite open minded. My daughter in law is too modern though and she wears very high thigh length shorts. I never used to intervene but now my grandson has become 7 years old and its bit too much for him to see his mom like this. But i suppose, thats the order of the day so we have to accept it.