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Joint Family:problem frm inlaws side
2011-06-29
Name: sam k



i got married 11/2 yr back. now am having 3month baby.i married 2 my relative.b4 marriage my inlaw used 2talk nicly with me.but after marriage there alot of cahnge inthere beheviour.the marriage proposal was brought frm and my parents has not given any ans 2 them for 2yr b' coz i have a elder sis who had not got married at tht time.atlast v accepted there proposal and said tht marriage will b after my sis marriage.they agreed for this and were happy.
at tht time started 2 chat with hubby while chating he gave me big shock tht he is loving me 4 past 10yr.so he is intrested 2 marry me.after 1yr my sis got married.soon after v both got married.after marriage inlaw beheviour is complety diff.they used 2 talk with in highpich.and used 2 tell -ve abt me 2 my hubby.3months after i asked hubby y they r terating me differently.ans given by him is tht his mother is incomfort with me when she see v 2 together.when my hubby told this i was suprised.moreover my hubby love his parent more then me.he balives everything wht they say.he will not lisen 2 me.on hearing tht ans i decided 2 die b' coz am not having my hubby support also.
once i attemp 2 susid.attht time 2 hubby told me 2 go 2 my mother place.after 1month he came back 2me with his parents and my inlaws talked with my parents and had taken me back.frm tht time problem bcame alot.my mil used 2 say all -ve things 2 husbanb and he used 2 belive more thn me.tht time i got pregancy.knowing tht am pregnent my mil sent me 2 my mother place.at tht time health was not gud i asked my husband tht am not intrested 2 go.he is with his mother both of them sent me.the problem now am having is my husband is telling me tht he do' t want 2 live with me.and even he is not coming 2 c the baby also.my husband love me .
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2011-07-04
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Anonymous Name: Naina
Subject:  hi



Leave that ******* right a away why the hell you get pregnant cant you see he is mommy' s boy.and now he is not coming to see the child.Fil a divorce paper if you are not working ask for monthly weages for your child .If he loves his parents that much that he can leave you and your lovely child also..then why are you so desperate to be with him..Love your parents take care of them start earning. believe me if you file divorce they will come and say sorry and stop talking to your hubby say you want divorce child will be with you as per laws.dont worry.
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