Hetal I am a well wisher of this board but i have been reading your mails and if i think about it clearly not offending anyone here but they seem superficail. One cannot make so many dishes take exams write thesis like msg and on top with a thesis or papaer on top of all duties.You seem like a nice girl but why try to be a supermom, noone here thinks they are. ppl have admitted that it is hard to do so much and you came in with yet another msg to slash their opinion.
No doubt you have a big fan club here and it is not fair that when ppl voice an opinion here that everyone comes to your defence. THAT IS NOT FAIR EVERYONE HAS A RIGHT TO AN OPINION. WE ARE NOT EXPERIENCED MOTHER FOR 20 ODD YEARS WE ARE NEW HERE.Hetal you cannot have an answer to everones questions that is impossible. You give advice if you have tried it not write a msg for someone and say you havent tried it yet.
Another thing you said you didnt want to give your daughter cheese. Then why are you giving sharp cheese and american ...isnt this a little hypocritical if one was to follow your advice what should they do give cheese or not!!!!
I think ppl on this board need to think before thrashing others as their msgs may have an element of truth in it.
I wish everyone the best here
well wisher nisha replied. even though it is directed to hetal i want to share. why you dont tell your real name. other thing. if hetal is trying to be supermom or whatever term you are using. why is it that it is bothering you. that is a good thing. why are you trying to put her on negative stands.
by the way, hetal has not answered all the questions here. i had seen her asking about ear piercing and many other things. you think she could not have found that on google or some other sources. i do not think so. to me it seems that even if someone is not able to answer her, by the time someone else faces the same problem she has answers for it.she is not a girl who will wait for replies here or any where.see the post of anitha and hetal. the next minute hetal said that she has put those dvds that anithas daughter sees, on her netflix queue. i might not be that fast enough to grasp things. But i wanted to be that.
also, why is it that all of sudden you talked about cheese after the priya post only. hetal had been telling this before too about it.also before too when someone had posted mac n cheese post. then why is it that you said now only. is it that you are priya ?
you are a well wisher why are you scared of putting your real name ?
silent reader,i have never read hetal post saying that it worked for nirja so it SHOULD work for you.but she says that she tried this for nirja as of now. she also mentions that she have had kitchen disasters too. well,eveyone speaks of good about themselves, but i saw hetal many a time accepting things that she couldnt do. i dont see any of us doing that. it is difficult for someone to say that. and i must say hetal has that maturity to accept that.
i do not know then, why is it that you are after her.i respect the way she writes and also the way couple others members write. so its not advisable to trust on what you said.
sorry about long post.please do not spoil the discipline of this board by commenting on people who are trying to help. abc replied. well wish, please wish well for everyone. seema replied. what is your good name. if you are well wisher, what is your real name.
Hetal, stop replying these alien names ladies. they have nothing to do so they bother eveyone. Hetal replied. http: //www.indiaparenting.com/boards/showmessage.cgi?messageid=3637&table_name=dis_duedate_jul2005

check this,,,what is said read it nicely and word by word... i dont try to be supermom..nor a superwoman..i tell wat i use or experience..none of things i mentioned is something that i never tried !
i never tried answering everyone question. i try to help just like others do.. if i get time, i reply or else i dont bother.
also, i m not slashing neone views. i m giving information, that i know..NETHING WRONG IN THAT..ARE YOU REFERRING TO MY POST TO PRIYA ABOUT CHEESE ! DID I SAY NETHING WRONG ! check it on google...
TELL ME,IF SO, TELL ME I WILL ACCEPT IT..if i m wrong, people tell me i accept it..otherwise i will not.,m sorry to tell that.
infact its writting on the formula can itself never boil it ! now that doesnt come in your picture,.so its understood that even if i dont say nething you are goin to be after me ! right !!!!!!!
nirja loves cheese.so i avoid giving her, and i presnally dont believe in it.
she gets everything that i dont want to give her, like sugar ( in the lapsi that i mentioned that i make it on sat.sun), and things made of cheese..she sometimes even gets kheer, halwa and all we eat out on weekends..last time my dh made her taste icecream..i know its not good, but weekends are for her.

i never said that i never gave nirja cheese ! did i say that..check the post and let me know.i will be glad if you find ne...
i dont trash neone here, i respect and when i find something new i also ask ,,is there nething wrong in asking something that is new ! hello,,thats wat we are here for arent we..
and i said what i give to nirja, and not what they should give..i also mention that this is how she liked or not or this is how she learned,,i never said it will work for people here...
or that i avoid givng sugar, and i replace my baby needs accordingly..
i say what i did for my baby..

why is it that you are after me like that..if you are really a well wisher, wish good for everyone,,,including me.
neways, i dont care, wat you think of me..
by the way,people come to my defense not because they are fan of me, but because they have known me personally. and it has happened that we all ended in same place ! thats not my problem.
by the way, what is your good name ! if you are well wisher, why are you afraid of putting your name.