Name: Priya

Dear Arti
I understand you fustration right now. I know alot of mothers wjo have sent there infants to daycare and have complained about sicknesses. As i see it there are tw things you can do...either get someone to look after you son at home or leave at a baby sitters house or like you said leave work. But if your son was 6 weeks or something and you would have said to leave work then i would have told you yes leave but now you son is a year old nearly and soon he will be 2 so i think better you keep your job because by 1.5 years he will have built his immune syatem well enough for daycare. It only a matter of 6 months or so. Do you have any indian ppl leaving near you post some adds in indian grocery store see what happens after that.
I know i am definately now on top of things. Things are crazy with a baby and thinking back to me doing a zillion things prior a baby it is hard to do even 3 things now. Weekends go by and half the work is now done. The reason for another baby was that both will grow together also the hardship with Dylan amkes me think that i can tackle another hardship with 2nd one and then when they grow older it will become easier. I jhave no help either except for nanny and even though she is there i still am doing most of the things. When i come home that is when she makes dinner and the qork i want to do when i get home i cannot do as i am watching Dylan.
Just wanted you to know that i am not a super mom all moms are in the same boat so dont worry.
Priya

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