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Name: Sunshine

Hi Shailu,
Sweetie, I didn't know u were working from home. In that case, I suggest, keep it up and just continue to IGNORE. That formula works best. Husbands never stop nagging. They just look for an opportunity, that;s also why I said, don't expect him to appreciate. My hubby does still nag me over smallest of issues. and we do still argue. But most of time I just ignore him. He doesn't like me going & meeting my friend or going out for a movie with someone. Well, since he won't come and I want to watch the movie, I just call a cousin or a friend and I go with them. Simple.
Yes, keeping your job can definitely boost your confidence.
My dear someone, you got me wrong. I'm not advising her to not be herself or whatever. I'm just telling her to not over stress and exhaust herself. Coz very clearly, being female we all know one thing, if we fall sick, no one will take care of us. But if our hubby falls sick, we will be nursing him like a child. I work & handle my house too and try to fullfil my responsibilities to best of my limits. A man always expects his wife to be a superman, chef a la best, and Kate Moss rolled into one. Which is close to impossible.
I want Shailu to keep her identity intact and not loose who SHE is in track of keep a sexist happy.
Shailu sweetie, you cannot please everyone.
it's just not possible. Believe me, the best option for you is to quit trying to live upto all his expectations coz frankly I think if he expects you to move the himalaya's u'd probably give it a shot.You already know that he's proud of you coz of the way he speaks to his parents about you! believe me, we should all be so lucky. :) That's one thing u have on your side.
I'm sure that if that much is there, it won't be too long till things look up.
For now, just ignore him. Be quiet. Do u'r own thing to the best of your capabilities. Just enjoy yourself! :)
God bless you two!
All the best.
Love,
Sunshine

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