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It wud be sensible if you invest some time on your 1yr old kid,rather than cribbing about jeans and your MIL.This was a point to be added.Ask any sensible person you will get the same reply. Jyoti replied. To whom u want to give ur msg and saying shame can u plz explain urslf. Jyoti replied. Oooooooo Hello Beena Madam!!!!! who r u to make fun of me.......... u' ll only get to know the problem when u face that urslf.... ok tell me wht u used to wear....suit or saree...wht???
suppose u r just restricted to wear sarees always........n tht too when u r not used to wear these.... then only u' ll feel the pain...... I m a s/w engg and working in an MNC where all other females used to wear jeans, i feel inferior among them, I have only one life and I want to live it by my own way.... n i have alz wear these type of dresses in my college days n alz n i havnt imagined my life without them.....

n by d way who told u I m nt taking care of my son.....excuse me!!!!! I love my son more than anything in this world n I do take very good care of him..... n this is not so tht I alz think ill of my MIL becoz of this issue.... but many times when we go out in a mall i want to buy some shirts but I cant as my ILs are with us.... that pains yar.....i mean u can never make ur wish fulfill..... I want to live my life by my own way..... but i cant!!!!!! anyways this is my destiny and i have to live like this only...... i alz try to be happy n make the environment of house lively.... n i m trying to forget the things..... but one thing i really want is me and my husband may got a job in a different city atleast for some years so that i can live like my way becoz this is the time only when we can do some enjoyment otherwise after some time we would grow old and there will not be any enthu in life.....

I hope u understand my problem and will not make fun of me anymore.... i also used to serve my MIL as much as possible, roz mein unke per tak dabati hoon.... we have good understanding.... but just one issue.... kabhi kabhi man nahi lagta bas...... i found this site and feel that i can share my regret here thts why posted....thts it.....

Jyoti replied. Oooooooo Hello Beena Madam!!!!! who r u to make fun of me.......... u' ll only get to know the problem when u face that urslf.... ok tell me wht u used to wear....suit or saree...wht???
suppose u r just restricted to wear sarees always........n tht too when u r not used to wear these.... then only u' ll feel the pain...... I m a s/w engg and working in an MNC where all other females used to wear jeans, i feel inferior among them, I have only one life and I want to live it by my own way.... n i have alz wear these type of dresses in my college days n alz n i havnt imagined my life without them.....

n by d way who told u I m nt taking care of my son.....excuse me!!!!! I love my son more than anything in this world n I do take very good care of him..... n this is not so tht I alz think ill of my MIL becoz of this issue.... but many times when we go out in a mall i want to buy some shirts but I cant as my ILs are with us.... that pains yar.....i mean u can never make ur wish fulfill..... I want to live my life by my own way..... but i cant!!!!!! anyways this is my destiny and i have to live like this only...... i alz try to be happy n make the environment of house lively.... n i m trying to forget the things..... but one thing i really want is me and my husband may got a job in a different city atleast for some years so that i can live like my way becoz this is the time only when we can do some enjoyment otherwise after some time we would grow old and there will not be any enthu in life.....

I hope u understand my problem and will not make fun of me anymore.... i also used to serve my MIL as much as possible, roz mein unke per tak dabati hoon.... we have good understanding.... but just one issue.... kabhi kabhi man nahi lagta bas...... i found this site and feel that i can share my regret here thts why posted....thts it.....

Pragya replied. Dear Beena,
U urself have said in ur messsage\" it is better we stop commenting on others\" that is what my message said to u it is better if v stop commenting on others without knowing them and better if we mind our own thing rather then being judgemental abt others .
good dear u urself agredd to what i said then if this is the case then why r u commenting on jyoti ??.contradicting ur own thing ?
As for looking in the mirror i have seen my self in the mirror clearly that is why I do not comment on others .But i think u need to see deep inside u how mature u r .
first make ur own fundas clear then teach others
Pragya replied. Your making fun of the problems of others and commenting on others itself shows how \" sensible\" and mature u r .

By the way why don' t u start taking classes on making people sensible .this world will be full of sensible people like u and then we will not have any problems .
By the way take care of ur own kid and family u are no-one to judje how good or bad mother she is .
I think u have forgetten that saying first look urself in the mirror and then say how ugly people are neena replied. No Beena Maam.
Please donot criticise anyone for the intensity of their problem. We are here to give advice and not to judge.
Jyoti' s problem is a real one. She is not allowed to do what she wishes for , that includes wearing jeans.
If she is raising the jeans issue here that doesnot means that she is ignoring her kid !
Or do you think that she should ignore her issues just because she has do fulfill her duty of being a mother?
I am amazed reading your posts making fun of Jyoti.
Please do not do such things. Such posts will only start war kind of debates on the board. and no one will gain anything.
Please choose not to post a response if you feel the problem is not a problem.