Planning a Baby  Discussion Forum

Archie,

Thanks for the patient response to my questions. Also for your kind compliments. Right now I think that the best approach is for me to take it as calmly as possible. I am definitely going to wait for 3 months before even deciding to conceive.

Once I get most of my results I plan to meet the doctor for the post-partum visit. I hope he will patiently answer all my questions. Otherwise I will not feel comfortable. But at the same time I do not want to change the doctors group right away. Most people say 'take it one day at a time'. But I am taking it one minute at a time.

- Aarti archie replied. dear aarti,
your situation is pretty much understandable. I hope you get satisfied with your gynecs response at post-partum visit.

I know many cases like yours and unfortunately nothing came out. Actually one of the girls who was pregnant along with me lost her littleone in 26th week and got no positive results from hospital tests but her spouse was active on net and went on suggesting an additional test on her placenta and her ob granted it. To their surprise his test cracked out secret behind demise and had to do with eating cheese.

But to be honest, how many things you could test. All I know is one must be sure not to eat out in restaurants and no take outs while pregnant, so that be your regular eatery. ONe must eat only home made fully cooked meal. But not saying this type of thing may have happened in your case, could be totally different.

stay relaxed and positive, eat healthy and go on with prenatal and you will hit success in near future.

archie