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Miscarriage and Child Loss:help me plz
2005-02-08
Name: prema swami



hi all,
i am new to this board but old to the site.
i was expecting in the march
but gods will wass diff. i miscarried in my 28th week in dec last week i got my first period in jan end]
now plz help me that from when we can try for the next one
becos in from india as u know here social problem r very high and this was my first baby so too torcure from my inlaws help me friends
prema
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2005-02-10
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Anonymous Name: Preeti
Subject:  Have faith



Hi Prema,I am sorry about your loss,I miscarried in jan ,in 11 week.That was mine firsttoo.Its really difficult to cope up with this.I suggest give yourself atleast 2 cycles.Eat less fatty,more energetic food .Lots of Vegies ,fruits.Try to take regular brisk walks,these will make you feel better,& may be you can be fit after putting on some weight from the last one.About social problems,dont think much.If something bad comes your way,keep yourself busy in some hobbies.Spend good time with your hubby going out in evenings,or to movies.Feel positive for the future.My wishes are with you.
Preeti
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2005-02-09
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Anonymous Name: pari
Subject:  have courage!



dear Prema!
indeed it is unfortunate to shift to this board and i m very sorry for that. i m very old to this board. most doctors suggest trying after 3 cycles/months. that will also give u some time to recover from the miscarriage. what torture are u getting from ur inlaws? or did u mean to say its torture for ur inlaws too?
have courage and patience. though it wont make the pain lesser, i wish u have a healthy baby in ur arms very soon.
love,
pari.
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