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2007-12-24
Name: Anon



Hi All,

I am a regular visitor of this board .. Today I am here to share with you all a strange trend thats going on in many cities. I am talking of Blore here.

I am married ...have a kid and working in MNC (software) from past few years and have developed very good friends both male and female.
Among many others there is one guy who is good friend of mine. He too is married.

We chat almost everyday(usually on messengers) ..abt day to day work or family or kid.

Couple of days back when we started chatting ..I was sharing how busy life is working,managing kid, his school and household work.Then suddenly he asked me what I do for fun. I said the usual I go out with hubby and kid, movies, eat out etc ... Then I asked him the same, and his answers shocked me ...

I think its his guilt that he shared this with me ...
He says he created a profile on networking website like fropper, then he got in touch with some female, who is married and has a 2 yr old daughter. She is a housewife and husband works for a reputed company. After chatting for few days and talking over phone couple of times, they planned to meet. He took her on a long drive to outskirts of Blore. Then I got curious and probed him some more. Asked where did she leave her child and what they did etc for which he said she brought her daughter along .. and the girl was sleeping in the back seat while he and that lady were having fun in the front seat .. They got involved physically to some extent aswell...

I felt so sick and dirty hearing this ... how could a mother take a kid that too a girl this way to meet some stranger and go to outskirts of the city in his car ?

On my being suprised he says its not such a strange thing .. Many married ppl date in Blore these days !
He is very normal , good , hard working guy doing very well in career just like many of ours husbands or brothers....

If such a person also can do such things .. Where is trust in life ?? I started to wonder who my hubby meets behind my back ??

Bottom line : I felt so yukky and disturbed listening to this .. what if my friends wife ever comes to know .. and I was so shocked at that ladys courage to trust some man she meets on net and decide to meet him that too taking her daughter along when we read abt rape almost everyday in paper !!

I couldnt share this with hubby as Qs like who told me all this will come up ..also I dont want to give him new ideas ...so decided to share this on this board

Thanks for reading .. Your comments are welcome.

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2007-12-24
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Anonymous Name: LA
Subject:  agree prevails in Delhi too.



Read my answer in womans issue
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2007-12-25
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Anonymous Name: Srey
Subject:  Yeah, I posted there as well



Yep, check out my reply in Women issue.
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