Planning a Baby  Discussion Forum

We have been married since the past 6 yrs.Have been trying since 5 yrs. I am 34 yrs old and hubby is 37 yrs. I think i am getting old and am doubly worried. My husband's and my tests are normal. Thank GOD. Doctor has tried IUI thrice and has asked us to go for IVF. I wish i get pregnant naturally. Doctor at first told us the reason is unexplained. Later she told that since eggs and sperms don't seem to be meeting that must be the reason. She is OB/Gyn and IVF specialist from UK. My Parents, Sisters, family all r worried but very supportive. My MOM is praying to GOD and only GOD will help us. I am worried Someone pleaaaaaase help.......... Maya Singh replied. Hi,

If you are from Bombay, You can try Dr Malpani. I think at this stage you should try every possible thing. After 35 chances of getting pregnant naturaly is reduced. Though IVF is not 100% successfull but it increase the chances. You can give a try.

Best of Luck, VV replied. HI,

we r also trying for 3 months.I don't know anything aboout your case..but I feel the pain. JUST believe in GOD..he is the only one can change any LIFE..

GOOD LUCK TO ALL... Nitya replied. Lata,

Change your OB/GYN. If he/she says, its some unknown reason, you must change the doctor. May be they are not sure of what to decide on. So you can go to some other good OB/GYN and ask for tests. Then only decide on IVF, ok? IVF doesn't have 100% success rate, and you will be wasting money too. If you can have a baby natuarally why go for this? Wait until you are 100% sure that you cannot have babies naturally.

Godo Luck!

Bye Kusum replied. Dear Lata,
I know you must really feel frustrated with not becoming pregnant yet.

Keep on Thanking God and eating healthy, do a lot of meditation, have your family do the same.

Doctors can only do so much, have you considered getting a second opinion? I am sorry to mention that, but sometimes just one more input will lead you to the source and help to have a quick solution.

I am thankful your tests are normal and so are your husband's...

What part of India do you live?

K.Kambli(I am originally from Mumbai) suman replied. I know lata..same here, are you staying in india??..I have tried IVF in india. but did n't get succuss.they have transfered 4 grown , quality A embrio's on me..but still no result..I know it's a blind believe, but did you show your horoscope??..if they suggest any pooja..do it.