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Dear Archie

hope u remember me...i hd my periods on may 13th night..and next day i went to doc..and she gv clomid 50mg. And also she noticed that i dont hv enough mucus so she gave estrogen tabs to increase mucus...to use the day 10th of my periods..and ask me to come for sonography to detect the ovulation on 12th day of my periods..and i went and she did the test and that day only the was meatured as size 18.5..and ask me to make relation 13th day and 14th day..as per her instructions we did 13th day night and 14th day morning...and i notice some pain on my right side the same day (12th)like ovulation pain...and today is my 22nd day...but and i started to take progestoron tabs on 16th day of periods also...so i am waitng for results...

But archie i hd a doubt..the since 6 years i hd a problem of frequent urination...although i dont hv sugar at all...and when i close to my next periods date i usually got breast r tender and sore..and backache...and lengs pulled out...but i notice the change in my pms was changed that i am not having breast pain...and not much bachache as like before...from 2 months and i noticed that just 7 days before of my periods starts..i am feeling to go lavetory 3 to 4 a day...and this month also i am feeling the same feeling since y'day...is this also a common problem while pms...bcz this month we did everything best of ours...so we hd a hope that this month wouble me my month...but there is no any symptoms also...
Although i read some link in net that luteal phase defect...do u know any abt it...if so plzzzzzzz clarify me...bcz all these doubts r killing me like any thing..that howmuch i try to be cool and clam naa...but some times..i cant..pls try to understand archie..help me plzzz
Y i am not getting pregnent..wt i am doing wrong..and now i am feeling that i will get my periods on this month 11th...

plz archie reply me soon...
luv
suneeprasad archie replied. Hi Sunee,
I have already told you several time that you are overstressed case and you can only help to yourself.
I did not like when in first of my reply you said you are not stressed, although I knew you are.
Even after in a row I kept wasting my time on you.
I don't think I would do that again, sorry I don't want to offend you but unless you get out of your stress no one on this planet can help you.

What are you going to do if period is going to come will come regardless of you being stressed or not. Will you getting stress avoid period or will it get you pregnant? Ask these questions to yourself and get answers.

Loosing PMS symtpoms and developing new is not strange thing. I don't think you would want to judge to be or not to be pregnant based on this.

I would want you to come to me one day saying that you really missed period and now you have period like symptoms but not experiencing period then I will try to help.

I am unable to provide any help on stress as that's not my expertise.

Looks like your Dr. is doing good with your case. She is trying to improve your mucus, also giving progesterone in case you get conceived will not lead to miscarriage or sort of that. I can see her as a very good Dr. If you can't trust her who you visit regular and have face to face dialogue, are you telling that you trust me who try to give opinion and not really working on treatment for you.

Try to trust yourself, improve your self esteem and of course trust in your Dr. if not then go for other. With optimism and trust you sure will get pregnant. Stop being paranoid and stressed.

Archie