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Waiting to try:baby or abortion
2002-07-31
Name: alka



hi everyone
i have 5 months old baby girl and recently came to know that i am pregnant . i am in very much confusion ,what to do ,to continue or terminate my pregnancy .I don't want to get abortion but i am alos afraid of that what if it would be a baby girl .and another more bigger fear is that i am in usa and not going to get any third help and my husband can take maximum 10 days leave from hi s job . Morever will i be able to handle both the babies togther ? i do all househld work alone as here all other do .
what shouldi do? My doctor has asked me that if i wantabortion then its possibel till 12 week after that she will not do it . iam in a big dilemma . Myhusband has refused to corporate with me as he is in total favor ofabortion but i know he may chnage his decision if any solution is available .
one more thingi am due in march last and in october , we are going pemanently to india back and there i can get the servants . the main problem is justfor these 5 months.
pleaes advise me what should i do ? i should contine my pregnanc or terminte it ?
reply soon
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2002-08-01
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Anonymous Name: Chitra Muralidharan
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Hello alka,

She is correct.Very difficult question to answer and only those who already walked in those shoes can suggest u what is right. U both made the baby and u very well know what u r capable of and what not, so discuss it with ur husband first and take a good decision.Above all be extra careful next time.Dont ever make baby's basic existence a big dilema

Best of Luck and let us know ur decision
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