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Waiting to try:Hi Archie - Advice please
2005-05-16
Name: KBhavana



Hi Archie,

I hope you remember me.. Well here I am again and today it is my 12dpo and CD25/25.. I have been having cramps since last tuesday(almost for a week now). I generally get cramps only on the day or the day before my AF is due.. What should I do? Kindly advice..

I am expecting my periods any time from today. Well archie, if my periods was early by 3 days last time, does it mean that it might be late by 3 days this time.. If so my periods are due only on Thu..

Kindly advice as how long should I wait before I test using HPT.. FYI, I have no other symptoms.. Just the cramps throughout for almost a week and a very very little white discharge every now and then..

Thanks in advance,
KBhavana
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2005-05-17
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Anonymous Name: archie
Subject:  bed rest



Dear Bhavana,
I don't have much to offer but to ask you to bear this pain.
If this is in your lower abdomen then it's Ok.
If you don't feel burnign sensation while urination then also it's fine.

Feeling like period is on the way but not showing is natural.

If you have white vaginal discharge then also is normal.

See if your breasts are tender!

let me know tomorrow
Archie
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2005-05-17
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Anonymous Name: KBhavana
Subject:  KBhavana



Archie,

I do not have any burning sensation while urination. So far there is no spotting or bleeding. I have decided to wait till Friday or may be weekend if necessary before I test because as you said, I always feel like AF is coming.. Now and then, cramps become severe and after an hour or so, it is back to normal or mild cramping.

And for the changes in the breasts, I am unable to find out anything nor am I able to inspect my cervical position.. Very rarely I get a burning sensation in the breasts and at times an itchy feeling near the nipples.. but very rarely may be a few secs once in two days.. That is why I had written that I have no symptoms.

But as you said, there is nothing much I can do than to wait. But if there is anything that I need to be alarmed about at this stage, kindly do let me know. Till then, I shall follow your advice.

One additional thing is I feel a bit more hungry than usual.. Is this normal or is it in my head?? Is it not too early to eat a lot?? Well, I shall keep you posted regarding the changes in my bodies. Meanwhile, if you have any advice for me, please feel free to msg me.

Thank you so much for the advice you have been giving,
Luv,
KBhavana
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2005-05-16
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Anonymous Name: archie
Subject:  hold on for 4 more days



Dear Bhavana,
I suggest not to read symptoms too closely, they will drive you crazy and is not really nice when one want to get pregnant desperately. Please keep calm for another 4 days at least.

The luteal Phase (post ovulation phage) is usually 15-16 days for most of the people and the shortest is 12 days.

If symptoms; abdominal cramp grows bad but period does not show up by Friday morning then I want you to take test on friday with your first morning urine.

I suggest you to take enough rest and treat well, not to get on heavy duties till this Friday or even weekend in worse case.

Archie
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2005-05-17
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Anonymous Name: KBhavana
Subject:  Archie - Thanks again.. One more question



Archie,

Thanks and I shall follow the advice but since yesterday evening my cramps have gone real bad. It is so severe that I feel like fainting.. Please advice as what I should do.

I have never had cramps for more than a week continuously.. But this time, it has been there since last tuesday and is severe since yesterday evening.. Looking forward for your advice..

Thanks in advance,
Kamakshi
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