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hi,
if a married man is too free/friendly with other ladies (married/unmarried) like pulling their hand, showing that he cares for them while he goes outside what does it mean? how should his wife react to all this. Hey replied. Hi,
Even I had same question and many more ?!!!.
It means that your husband and my husband are flirtatious by nature!.
Hope you are able to digest this fact.
Sorry but this is the truth.
It is most likely that your husband does not have sisters?Am I right?.
Mine does not.that's the reason I asked.
But one thing for sure... we wives can never question them...if we do, then we will become the most dirtiest,evilest humans created by god.
Mine will flirt flirt flirt so much with his own friends' wives that I am somewat used to it now.
BUT what you can do is don't question him but make sure that he knows that You dont like it.You dont want to see it.Be very strict in your actions... but no harsh words from mouth.
Like when I see him in 'action' I used to just leave the place and stand very very angry somewhere far and guess I would have looked like kali matha on the spurge of killing the demom(once I broke a ceramic plate on the floor imagining the floor was his head) and then when he approaches me gathering his courage I will be his normal wife.
this way if there was mutual flirting that other lady will also run for life.
this may help up to some level.
But basically if you are able to accept the fact that 'Yes my husband is a flirt.'then you feel better.wat to do.. SOMEBODY has to marry the flirt?!
If you want you can also try this. when you question him and he says he pulled a lady's hand becasue he cared for her, you can say' I also want her husband care for me the same way....'
If you think trying this is risky then don't...I kind of tried this and it worked with that particular 'case'.
See You....