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Hi,

I'm 31 n TTC from last 2 months.From last 9-10 months i got a typical pro.I kept it to myself as i can't tell anybody.
Here in this forum i found many valuable help.So maybe somebody can help me.
Actually last yr i found a thin skin growth(like a thread)at the centre of my outer lips of vulva(labia majora).The day i saw it was an inch with a pink tip (as wheat grain)n was hurting me like anythg.Imm the next day it was short n only tht pink tip is visible,which whenever i touch it causes pain.
I showed it to my gyn but she told me not to worry,it's nthg.So i ignored this thg.
But i'm worried now as i'm TTC.Plz archie help me n let me no if this is k r a thg to worry.Shall i consult any other gyn?

Moreover sometimes while sitting,lying down r walking i feel a sharp twinge in lower andomen almost every month,it's unbearable but lasts for just few seconds.It's not continuous but i feel 3-4 times in a day r 2.I didn't observe when i feel tht pain but this time it's 2 days before my period date.I'm having this thg from long back even i don't remember.

Plz help me archie.I'm really in tension.
thanks archie replied. Dear Rakshita,
first of all sorry to say that I have not understood your terminology at many places. I am not familiar with many short forms. To start with will be your first line and word \";pro\"; what did you mean, professional or what?

Regardless what I said above, I think you don't need to worry on thing that grew on clitoris as it's subsided and you have been normally getting periods.

Learn first about your cycles and know if they are regular or not to help choosing fertile days for intercourse.
If cycles are very regular then substract 18 days from the total and have intercourse from that day of your cycle (for example for 30 days cycle it will be from 12 th day of cycle). Continue to have intercourse once a 24 hours for 5 days and no more intercourse till you get period or confirm pregnancy. Also no intercourse one week before your calculated day.

Abdominal cramps are normal and there is nothing can be done about that. It's called PMS and by and large 80% women go through different types of PMS.

Archie rakshita replied. sorry,it is at the centre of inner lips of vulva(labia minora),not outer lips.I think it's at clitoris.I don't no much abt vaginal parts.sorry again.