Planning a Baby  Discussion Forum

I am a 35 year old working mother living in mumbai who loves children and feels blessed to have a 14 month old son. I look forward to have more children. But i wonder if i should be selfish and 'give in' to my desires easily or look at the honerous task of bringing up well balanced human being(s) with a healthy mind and body.In today's socio-cultural environment and with modern day pressures, I want to enjoy being a mother and do justice to the object of my affection ie 'Baby'. Is it possible?

Let me know how you feel about this.

SVA arrya replied. hi,
i will advice u not to go for a second child. it is a great responsibility to be a parent. we have to give them time, love, good upbringing n if u can't provide that wat's the use. as it is u r working where will u have time to look after 2 kids let alone one.

i had this experience when i was pregnant with my 2 child i just couldn;t give my 1st one enough of quality time though being a home maker. nad he became stuborn, aggressive started using foul language.

it took a lot on my side to make him sober, well mannered.

so please think a lot it is very esxpensive money wise, quality time wise and love n up bringing wise. if u can give everything in equal to both u r kids then only go 4 it,

ALL THE BEST.
Regards,
asha

(i got pregs 2nd time only 4 my sis who adopted my 2 child.) SVA replied. Inadvertantly my message has appeared under 'adoption'. I wanted to write under the topic 'Planning a baby' but my mistake i seem to have come under 'adoption'. Sorry.