Hi All,

I got second time aborted. Could any one help me by letting me know about my future pregnancy's. Pls i am worried too much and expecting your feedbacks. Sudha replied. Hi Nisha,
It is sad and God should not give this to anyone. I have been through this experience some 5months back and was not able to forget till I conceived again. In my case I was spotting and developed vaginal infection during 1st pregnancy but no one hinted that time that it can be disaster for my baby, even I continued working also.

This time when I started carrying and found same spotting sympton, got alert and even Dr. also advised me to go on complete bed rest till 3 months. She told that it is not necessary that every spotting pregnancy is problematic but in my case due to my age also (I am 31yr old), she advised rest. Now my 13 th week has completed successfully and I started working also.

Sometimes I feel if I could have taken rest 1st time also, would have saved my 1st child.

You have not mentioned what was cos. of 2 abortion, this time please make sure that apart from anything you take rest properly and feel happy throughout 9 months.

with love,
sudha pari replied. dear nisha,
sorry to hear bout ur loss... ya i agree with u. God doesnt want to see us happy. in fact i dont believe in god. there is no such thing. but u know, if he is there, he has to be scared of us, for when we reach him, we will take good care that he doesn't do that to others down here. have courage! say out everything u feel on this board. here everyone feels the same. what happened actually? did the docs give any reason?
i know how u feel...my first miscarriage left me totally mad and demoralized...
take more precautions next time and im sure u will have a healthy baby.
have courage, dear!
pari.