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I have been reading and participating in some discussions. I wanted to discuss with u guys whether marriage is worth all that we do for it. Before marriage our parents are worried to get us married. Life after marriage is such that we live as per our husband or inlaws, we leave our homes for this marriage. Husbands have a huge heart for his parents but never think abt the girl who had left everything for him. Just one word from inlaws and his behavior changes. Is it all worth it? I wanted to discuss this with other people and get their opinions. Am just very disheartened from this word, \" marriage\" dia replied. Dear priya, So today u r in badmood and claiming marriage is not at all worth .:)!
Dont get disppointed.Atleast in ur case, I believe u r not in that bad position to hate marriage. I think today u r in badmood and by tomorrow, u' ll be ok. :)

But,Marriage is a must for girls and equally for boys too.But, Naturally We girls have pocessiveness towards hubbies ,So many a times we tend to get disappointed for his biased nature. But,He cant leave any of his wife or parents. His job is really tough than ours. Atleast our parents never misunderstand us(girls ) even if we do something for them or not. But,their parents tend to depend on sons particularly after marriage so its very common we need to struggle for existence in own home and they have similar insecurities because they know, DIL' s position is strong for their son.
So u r the strong person whether ur mind accept or not. U hold strength in this total drama. So, definitely they tend to feel insecurity and ur hubby definitely feel sympothy for them because he knows internally u r strong and ur place is not replacable .
Hope u got my point ,dear!

Sometimes it may be common for U feeling marriage and ur affection for ur hubby is not at all worth and he is not deserved for it. Sometimes, Its true when hubby never ever acept ur efforts and ready to blame u anytime. Actually for some
, marriage shdnt be blamed ...But, husband who really dont deserve a girl' s love shd be blamed.

Sit and think, Whether u got a blessing or curse...
1. Whether he anyday cared u? Or expressed that he love u ?
2.Whether he is taking ur responsibilities and buying u whatever u wish?
3.Anyday he prefer to spend with u and ur kids if holiday given?
4. Anytime he try to listen what u r going through his home?

If any ONE point is correct in above sentences, U can definitely trust in marriage and he deserve ur love .So keep loving him unconditionally. Then U' ll see positives and definitely feel
ur marriage is made for ur own good.

best of luck! SSS replied. i strongly believe in marriage.it has brought me so much happiness(touchwood).ofcourse there are more responsibilites.still the intimacy,care and love that one get from one' s husband cannot be matched to anything else.and even if i am a bit upset with my hubby,there is my son who make me forget all my worries.so i would say marriage and a happy family is all that one need to be happy in life.