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Waiting to try:Should we have 2nd baby?
2005-03-21
Name: Confused mother



Hello,

I have a 3 year old son and i am very confused about having one more child or not. Since i am working part time, it is possible to work with 1 kid, but with 2 kids, i can not work. I will have to stop working. Though i work for my family owned company and there is no financial need for me to work, i prefer to work. But i also feel that my son will need a company. Please advice should i have a second child or not. Also, if yes, how should we go about it so that we can have girl child this time?

Please reply soon.

Thanks.
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2005-04-07
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Anonymous Name: sivakumar
Subject:  i can tell you the trick



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2005-03-25
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Anonymous Name: mommy2b
Subject:  1 or more kids!?



dear c..mommy,
I completely undertstand the first part of ur problem..
I alwyas see the happy n complete picture of afamily wherein there r 2 kids.. aboy.. a girl..loving mommy n caring papa. which has been true to my parents..
My brother was in naboarding school.. with family for 2months a year.. I grewup bit selfish..as he was not around most of the time and Got all the attention didn't like much 2 share my things.. very possive of my belongings.. and all otherkinds of feelings.. until I was big enough 2 understand that real happiness is in sharing and caring .. and enjoying with my bro.. or sibling.. which i cud understand only en I was in college..around 19 yrs.. now I'm almost 30 yrs love adore my brother so much that not even a single day passes without thinking of him..he is in India and I'm in U.S.A.
I alwayas feel a sibling will defenitely teach us a lot in life.. which place our parents can never ever fulfil
and for the second part of ur prob I.think I'm not quite experienced 2 answer u as I'm TTC #1.
anyways.. gudluck with the 2nd baby...
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