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hi friends,

i new to this site n really need friend's shoulders to lean in . a slight introduction from my side.m married to my childhood darling from 4 yrs. marriage annoucement was horrible from both the side which lead to seperation of ours for 2 yrs.after 2 yrs by hook n crook we got married.my parents accepted us from the day we got married but from my husband side nobody accepted till next 2 yrs.we got settled in differnt country so wasnt problem.it took time to get settle from his side.

now after 4 yrs of our marriage my brother in law means my husband bro also got married without annoucing anything n brought his bride home and my MIL accepted her as she is.n she wanted to have a grand reception of it and wanted us to attend it also.

we are so upset that how come a mother be so partial to her sons.my husband is such a good son.only our marriage is the only thing he did opposite of them or else he listen to each n everything of them.despite of this his younger bro is black sheep of his family then also his family is behaving so nicely n cooly with him.the new bride is also from a bad uncultered family still everything is ok for them.

i m wondering how come a mother think good for 1 n bad for other son.we had never done false in our whole life but after hearing such things in our life ,life goes so in misery.

My husband is having a such a heartbreak i can really cant see it.he is a perfect son,husband and father.but still he is not getting enough or good status in his family.mean while in my family inspite of ours love marriage my dad take or ask his suggestion in big occasion as good soninlaw.

i dont know y such things happen to good people n how come such people dont have hearts.

sorry if i make u feel bore but i was really feeling too bad n was feeling to talk to someone .

sonu saloni replied. hi sonu,
got to read ur problem and felt bad.as a friend just would like to tell you that many things happen in our life which are not acceptable for us,but we have to bear it and go on.your mil also may have realised the mistake she did after rejecting you and her son,and thats why now agreed for her second son;s love marriage.also she might be wishing to see you all and want you back as part of the family,thats why have invited you all.so think good,try to patch your hubby and in-laws.just try to forget what they did to you both in the past and accept them and their love in future and move on.thats life,and u can pacify your hubby also by telling him this.hope soon ur mil undesrtands what she missed after she rejected her son and you.all the very best for your life.take care and keep smiling. ani replied. hi,
read ur story. really feel for what has happened to u. life has ups and downs. ur MIL would have thought like ur husband has done against them so shez angry. but now after seeing that her second son also do like that she would have thought like giving more importance to u also. so called u for that function.no mom will see partiality between sons. iam sure she'll feel very happy seeing u both in that function and will feel sorry for what has happened b4. dont worry. moreover it will not take a long time for her to know about the younger brother's wife and their family.jus now they have got married. so soon she'll come to know whats wrong and whats rite.
a day will come, she'll ask sorry to u and ur husband. always people with a good heart face more problem than crooked minded. but it will not last long!!! dont worry. dont fail to make it for the grand function. u'll get a solution there. smile and b happy. even if ur husband feels about them, try to make it in a positive way and never pass any negative about them to ur husband. this will make him love u more and he'll feel happy.
all the best!!!