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Hi friends!!
Here again. Mine was luv marriage and again my hubby had EMA which is now resolved. But due to all this and many more problem with my INlaws I stoped talking to them. We r staying another city. During my Hubby EMA my INLAWS had got nice chance to degrade me and abuse me( As I was not there choice). Due to the mental breakdown about my husband EMA and my INLAWS taunting and abusing nature I stoped talking to them.
My friend the problem is that all this 2 to 3yrs I never visited my INLaws city thou my hubby visited. Now my hubby wants to take all of us that is me and my 2 daughter to his house. Even I want my children shud b close to my INLaws but again facing them, getting me quiet difficult. If they again mistreat me??? Again if they take out all the old stuff than??? Just as days r coming near I m getting lots of tension. I want to say here that my husband is not at all supporting nature, nor tactfull how to handle me and the INLaws, in the end they win. Bcoz over that side my MIL, SIL, and somtime my BIL is there. definately they will make faces. I feel am I doing right thing to there house or shud I go to my grand mother house ( I dnt hv immediate family to go. I dnt hv parent and my brother is abroad with his family.
Plz help me my friend how to face my INLaws !!!!
Or shud I go to my grand maa house to avoid the whole situation in this my husband will not agree, if I want this than I hv to strongly stand on this issue plz help. ss replied. I feel really sorry for you dear who ever you are...
Noone strongly with you...only brother abroad...husband had an EMA..& to top it all ..illtreating Inlaws!!!..At this point all you need to care & worry about in life should be \" your kids\" ..They are the only people who are going to be with you until the end!!..you are putting up with all these mean people( your hubby, Inlaws etc.,) ONLY for your kids' sake..so what do you think is best for them?..going along with them to your Inlaws's house or going to your grandma's house ?..Think about it...
If possible try to go to grandma's house along with your kids..if that is not possible then try to go along with your kids to those evil people's house since they might try to poison even your kids's minds against you if u let them go alone wiht your hubby...So be supportive of your kids & lead your life according to their needs & necessities..
GoodLuck.