Name: Bargavi

Hi Ashra,
I read ur msgs. I am happy ur getting back to normal and eating well. Good.
I wanted to tell u abt my frend. She got married and came here. Got preg the FIRST month itself. Noone cud make it for her delivery. She had a cute baby girl. After baby was 4 months she was complaining of some urinary prob and went to the doctor, and doc confirmed that she is preg AGAIN.
She decided to get her parents this time but her sis wedding was fixed so they cudnt come. She managed the second delivery too herself and had a baby boy. I am not exaggerating, she lives next door and I saw it all. I am guilty that I didnt help her much coz I was working full time then. Also only now I realise how tough preg and deliv is. Her kids are now 4 and 3. Very cute and smart.
She went to India for the first time only now to show kids to her and his family.
I am sure u can manage, jus be prepared mentally.
Ur aunt is there anyways for help. I suggest u start shopping and get all basics needed for first 1 month. I did the same coz with twins I dont think I can go out first month atleast. If anything is left ur hub can go, but atleast it gives a satisfaction that u have everything at home for the baby. Its a natural motherly instinct, I am sure u can do it.
Cheer up.
Bargavi

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