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i am happily married and stay with my kid and parents-in-law. my husband is a very nice man and has been a very sweet and loving huband, father, son.
the problem started recently when my sister got married outside our 'biradri', with the consent of both the families. he is very conservative as regards the caste system and generally doesnt approve of love marriages.
now he feels his decision to marry me has proved wrong to him as in his view now, neither my family nor my sister remain respectable as she has gone for a love marriage outside our biradri. it seems ' a respectable family ' is all he had wanted when we got married. i m not so fair or pretty . his family had not made any demands from my parents... if htey had wanted they could have got lakhs from any other proposal, looking at the fact that he is reasonable well settled.
things are otherwise normal at my home, he doesnt misbehave with me and isthe same loving husband he was before. his parents and my SIL in fact favoured the wedding and attended it.
he doesnt restrict me from anything, but i feel sad that he fels this way and refuses to have anything to do with my sis or her husband and feels that my family is not respectable. he speaks noramally to my parents though, as before on all issues except that of my sis. he just keeps quiet once the issue comes up.
can anyone tell me what i should do? please give constructive ideas only. abusive comments for my husband are not welcome. simone replied. i believe that the best thing is to talk about and clear apprehensions once n for all. being his wife u know his true nature and that he is not bad at heart therefore u shd understand that time is the greatest healer.
talk to him politely so that he opens up and try to remove the scrap of casteism from his mind.
make him undrstand that if ur sis n her husband are happy n well settled then there shd not be much problem.
free n open talk will sort out the matter Lucky replied. ENJOY IT....I LIKE DRAMA...HAVE FUN!