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I am having unusual feeling, I don't know it is wrong or right.I have been faceing unexplained infertility since 10 years.some people say if it is unexplained , the husbands sperm must be allergic to wifes egg.I am getting thought I should have sex with another man and get pregnant.believe me I don't want to love that man.only sex and want to have child.I am that desparate.What should I do? Is it ok to cheat on husband to enjoy the motherhood?.If another man is promise to keep it as secret?.Please give me suggestions.I can't think my life with out having child.I never loved another man in my life other than my husband.
friend replied. Hi

I have read yor u r message.. and replies, whatever Jagan is said is
true once you do wrong thing , that guilt will be there for ever
till you die, So think about sprm donation...
I am sure you will get the baby.. believe in god .. miracles will happen in
life..but never ever think about cheating u r hubby.
ALL THE BEST
friend mr replied. hi,
i m married hope fully i got a child in next year.well i know its a hard situation.but blive me there is hope. i suggest u go to sperm donor bank.there u can find the way,for that u r not supposed to get sex with some one and this way u can save ur maried life to.more over blieve in god.
best of luck
take care accomplice replied. Hi Desperate,
I dont know why, but after reading ur message I have this strong urge to be ur accomplice in fullfilling ur wishes. actually i,m already a father of very cute baby boy, & belive me after playing the kid i,m finding how wonderful kids are, they make u laugh, stress free, & make u feel a kid again.
I have never have sex outside of my marrige, but after reading somany messages on this site's extra marital coloum, I feel like its very common, so I made up my mind to go for it & whats better way then helping some one so desperate, coz I its not the blood reletions but the upbringing which makes parents close to the kids. So if u want to have only sex for pregnancy & not strings attached than i,m ready.
If u r interested then e-mail to awara03@yahoo.co.in for further interations. Jagan replied. Hi dear,
Pardon me for being honest.I had a lady friend of mine who has gone through this episode. Be honest we are close friends and I use to visit her often as we were in the same sec sch before.She could'nt conceive due to her husband's defect and tried other methods and all were unsuccessful.She explained to me and asked me for help.I got no choice as I was brought to the situation that took place in her sister's place .We did it twice and she got it. A hansome little boy who is 5 yrs old now. To tell you the truth we are still worried about the situation even though no one else know about it.The guilt can never be erased till we leave this world. Think twice before commiting dear. Wish you all the best and definitely the GOD will Bless And Help you. sejal replied. It seems that having an illicit affair when your husband surely must know that you are both unable conieve is not a smart move. You said that you have consulted with doctors, perhaps you should ask your doctor what specific solutions there are to your infertility. If the doctor had no solutions, and you are unwilling to adopt then you ought to know that surely none of the board members can help you. rashpal replied. I have read so many posts on this board and am amazed at the myths the people here have. Where did you hear that if infertility is unexplained that it's because the sperm is allergic to the egg????? That is nonsense. Having sex with another man is NOT going to fix the problem unless your spouse has the infertility issue. If you are infertile for whatever reason, you will not get pregnant. It won't be worth the pain and agony you will feel knowing you had sex with someone else! Have you tried fertility drugs or IVF?? Maybe adoption is the way you will become a mother.