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I am very depressed. I had a horrible marriage and divorced now. My parents feel I should remarry as I am very young but I am worried about my 1 year kid. Can someone suggest the advantages and disadvantages of remarrying with a kid. ash replied. Send your kid to boarding, or leave your kid with your parents and marry.

But before marrying again , you have to promise to your forthcoming husband that your kid will never be the hindarance between you and your new hubby...........

Technically speaking , no body will marry you now because you already have a kid. you will never be fully trustful to your new husband , because your mind will always be with your kid.

If only anybody marries you also then, he will ditch you after a year or so , after taking full juice of your youth.

YOu believe it or not , take SNYAS and go to TIRTH YATRA.............. Devote yourself to God , because you have spoiled your life by giving birth to a child. Thats why I tell all the ladies in this world , dont be so hurry to get pregnant . First give some time to you and your husband to understand completely , and then go ahead with all this deliveries and pregnancies.

What I feel is that the woman should not crib for baby at least for 4 to 5 years after marriage. Because this period is called formative period in every ones life, the commitment towards each other becomes more and more strong during this formative period only.

All the best for your future. Now you are as vulnerable as a toy, everyone will play with you and leave you aside.


Regards
ASh db replied. Hey ultimately what is is seen in marriage your happiness. thats all the journey may be love marriage or arranged.So dont worry too much. Sorry i didnt know u had a love marriage.
Why dont u take a break say for 6 months or an year. You are young get a makeover start studying do a job. I perfectly understand when u say guys are different before marriage and after marriage.you seem to be under lot of stress. try to relax for sometime.Change your wardrobe. get a makeover meet friends do a job.Something out of routine.it will give u some relaxation back and then u can start off.
And dont worry there is one perfect person for everybody U will also have one . The only thing is u need to find that person. Best of luck. Post back. db replied. Hey Cheer up .Think of it this way. It would be tuff to survive a bad marriage. Would u have spent your precious life time surviving something which didnt give u any joy or fulfillment.Dont be depressed. get a makeover.get a job . do something which will keep your mind off of your past for sometime say for 6 months or an year.You will automatically come out of depression.
What your parents say is true.They will be worried about kids.After u start doing something like a job or study you will be confident enuf to start thinking about marriage again. Dont worry u will find someone who will marry u with your kid. You only need to find that person.consider dating too so that u will get to know the person well enuf before committing to marriage.Best of luck. Post back.