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Dear sangini and friend it was indeed nice on your part to suggest me some ways of tackling my problem.My husband has got a touring kind of a job due to which he is out most of the times,he well knows about the situation at home and he did try to talk about this to his family but they were against him too,they say that you are under the influence of your wife which ofcourse is not true,he is a sensible person who had tried to maintain a balance but due to utter jealosy my MIL,BIL and his wife keep on creating problems endlessly.Regarding shifting from this place again we have shelled a lot of money to make this house if we move out then it is the end of ours having any share in this house,when differenciation is done so openly then when we wont be they are bound to play cheap games.secondly iam an Msc. Biotechnology,with my kind of qualifications it takes long working hours which becomes impossible with my daughter though i did try to do some part time jobs it didnt work partly because of the noncooperative people at home if i keep a maid even she is thrown out,Ill tell you the vibes of my MIL are so bad that even if you try to do a good positive thing it goes against you i know that in todays world it is hard to believe on negative feelings or badua,but in my case i have seen it really works.My parents live a bit far from my place but they come only on occasions to my house thanks to the treatment given to them,also they dont keep well healthwise.while my sisterinlaws parents are given full royal treatment.But finally yes what you are saying is certainly a valuable advice which i will try to work on it.iam not in the state of full potential but slwly i will have to gather strength.After a long time when i read your posts to my reply i was touched that at least i there are some people in this world to help others out.thanks again.may be my post is a bit too long but it is heartfelt sanginin replied. Hope things get better u have a understanding husband and try to invest in some other new land or flat with out your in-laws knowledge, well that will be good and change from now on have a good time with your daughter..
all the best friend again replied. yes, i mean to say start investing again in a new residence.

either u can shift there, or even if u cant, u hv an asset.

if beaing away from these ppl is more imp for u, u can forget the money u invested here. Afterall its maya. friend again replied. when u told about the problem in shifting house, a thought suddenly came to my mind ...

indeed u might hv put lot of money in this house ..
i dont know about your financial situation .. but ..
think if its still possible to go to other house

See dear, peace of mind is more imp than materialistic things. Wdnt u prefer Living in a smaller house with hubby and daughter peacefully?

in my last message i asked u to enjoy ur life. That is my objective again. We waste our precious life adjusting and bearing such worthless things.

I dont know if my suggestion is possible, but i m pointing it out in case it is possible but has never come to ur mind.

just want to see u happy.

friend