Hi girls,

I cant help but ask you all about how your SEX LIFE is doing and hope to get some honest answers :).
Are you guys all into it like before? I am always so tired and am dead by 9pm so sex life is kind of dull though aisa nahi ki hota hi nahi hain...and of course jab kabhi hum mood mein bhi hote hain to LORD RISHABH cooperate nahi karte na...he decides to WAIL or do ULTI at that time...of course I am super dry down there...the doc said it will be like that till I BF as estrogen levels in the body are way too down..so whatever...
Do share whatever you can...i.e if you are comfortable...
Loadsa Love Reena Rajashree replied. Hi Reena,
NO to sex so far, its limited to cuddling only..I still fell pain in the area..My Dr had asked me not to have intercourse for abt 4-5 months, she said my stitches will take time to heal.To be frank, i m very very scared to have sex:-(..
raj

sush replied. Hi Reena
Tho' Tia is sooooooo copperative in that dept...we both are now 30 plus !!!!& just lack the drive & energy !..Tapash has a 2 hr commute & his chronic back pain & I neways simply slip off to nod nod land the moment I touch the pillow so frequency has drastically reduced ..also when one day we had tried..my breasts started leaking & it kind of was put offing...life changes ....but sab chalta hai..
sush maurni replied. Hi Reena,
I know exactly what you mean. Things were pretty grim in that dept. until about two weeks ago. Once Vrisa got into somewhat of a schedule, I could do my things during the day accordingly and that helped in easing my tiredness. We had this wonderful lubricant we bought at a store called Lover's Lane. It's much better than the KY stuff you get in the pharmacies. Don't know if you are in the US or not but I will look at the name of the Gel and write again. It's really helped me with my dryness. Some tricke we find helpful are giving each other massages and spend more time on foreplay. There doesn't have to be any intercourse all the time. Hope this helps.
~M Jayashree replied. Hi Reena,
My son , Yash, was born on Jan 18th, and in these 3 months we tried only once, but I was so dry down there that I didnt let it happen !
My parents are here to help us, I feel uncomfy with them in next room and the walls so thin here!Plus, didnt get my periods yet, since BFing, waiting for that too ...
Need to try again, himmat karke :-)
Things will go back to normal slowly, I guess.....
Chalo, take care
J nov mom replied. for us its very much back to normal, no dryness, no prob so far. i had vaginal delivery, got big tear, lots of stitches. but all is well now. our baby sleeps bfor 9pm, but most of the time we both r tired.