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Hi Everyone
I m a new member. I hv been accesing this site for some days and i really find it very informative.I want to share something with you all.

I had my misscarriage on July 21 this year. After that Doc asked me to wait for 3 mnths before i start trying again. I am trying for last 2 months and trying in my most fertile days still no success. I know its very early to ask since its only 2 months i hv been trying but i hv heard that after D&C chances of concieving again raises up.

Should i go for a doc for my check up or should i wait for another couple of months. kitty replied. Hi,
I'm sorry to know 'bout ur miscarriage . When u say u've been trying in ur most fertile period i'm assuming u've been checking ur fertility with either of the three ways of knowing if ur ovulating like OPK, mucous method or the BBT method .
I too had had a miscarrriage last year in Dec . and it took my periods to get back to normal i.e to 27-28 cycle only after 4-5 mnths until then they were ranging from 35 to 28 days interval but that does not in any way mean that i wasn't ovulating .One starts ovulating right after the D&C is done i think in 13-14 days of the D&C. I did not try for a year coz it kinda took me that long to get over the whole thing and now i'm pregnant (8weeks).. so to make long story short i would just say that if ur periods are pretty much regular and if ur sure that ur ovulating every month then it shld not take u more than 6 mnths to a year to succeed that's the normal time frame for normal couples . U may even conceive sooner.,,Also keep what Archie said in mind its a very valid point .
Finally if u'r really concerned and are getting worked up its best to see ur ObGyn and discuss this matter with them.

Hope this helps .. All the very Best
Kitty archie replied. Dear Shalini,

I am sorry to hear about your loss. Be patient, work without thinking you are trying and you will have success.

Perhaps I will sound different than other two responses.

In some cases after D&C chances are high for getting pregnant but in some cases they reduce a lot and it can take almost a year or long. This is solitarily dependent on Dr. who performed Curratage on you. A perfect curratage will result in successful and quick pregnancy if there was a minor trouble and excess curratage a little also will pose difficulty to get pregnant in early months when you try.
Archie Neha replied. Hi Shalini
Get your check up first & doctor would advice you what to do
& Sorry to hear about your misscarriage, i hope you will be alright
take care
& good luck