Name: old lady
Hi,
I am regular visitor of this site and needs some help from you all.
First about myself, I am working in a bank at a senior post and I got separated from my husband 20 years back. My son was just 6 year old at that time. I didn't re-marry since my world was all around my son. I worked hard against all odds (it was so diffcult for a single mother to live in those times). Thankfully my family supported me and my son also is very caring and helpful. He is 26 year old now and is working in an MNC as engineer.I am very proud that he has proved me right and succesful in his upbringing.
Now he wants that I should take retirement and should go with him to US. He is going there for 3 years.
The problem is that he doesn't want to get married. Everytime I ask him to get marry he told me that he doesn't want any one to come and create differences between him and me. Recently in our family my brother's son got separated from the parents after the marriage. They are living alone now and my son visits them regularly and take care of them. Now he is of the impression that all girls wants to live separately. Which I know is not True, but unfortunately I don't have any examples to show him.
I am very much worried about him. I wanted him to get married and settle in his life. Infact I thought that after my retirement I would open a social service centre and would help the old people. I don't want to go to US at this age. But when I tell him all this he says he will cancel his trip.
Please help me How can I convince him to get married and go to US with his wife and not with me.
I have seen him talking to one girl who is his colleague very often. I am open to love marriage also but when I ask him he laughs it out. Shall I call her home.
Sorry for long message and thanks for reading.
I am writing first time on a website so if there are any mistakes please ignore.