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Hi all,
I just wanted to ask u all one doubt that I think bothers most women . I suspect my husband whenever we both come across some high busted women. I also found that most women with extra size don't try to cover it up, rather they love to exhibit it. Though my hubby says he is fine with mine, i feel irritated when I see these type of women. Isn't this weird? hw r ur feelings when u come across such people? i want some honest and frank responses. LA replied. Um, I am big breasted. I am sort of offended by your comment. I was 11 years old when I developed into a large c cup. If I gain weight, I grow bigger.At a weight I am comfortable with, chubby but not thin or fat, I am a full d cup, this is my regular size.

Now, when I was younger, girls hated me or were jealous, thinking the same way as you, boys made me feel self-conscience and I wore clothes to hide it even if I knew they were a blessing or something I was born with and not something I could or should change.

Anyway, now that I am a woman, I can appreciate them for what they are. they are big and there is no way nor need to hide them. Men like breasts, big or small they are all a joy for them to look at.

I love my breasts. I can admire small ones and large ones - all natural are the best but everyone has their preference.

Now, I want to know, why you think I should cover my breasts because women who are smaller are intimitated by them. Is that my fault or my problem?

I am married and the only one who gets the pleasure of my breasts is my hubby. But there are some clothes that fit my shape well and they occasionally show my size and shape of my breasts, should I not be allowed to wear them? But because you are small you should wear clothes to enhance the size of yours, like push up bras or tight shirts. Even if you don't enhance yours, I don't have to, they just are like that and I shouldn't have to down play them either.

I am sorry but you can only see the size of a small breasted insecure woman. Your husband will look at all women because men can do that - and so can women, u just think there is something wrong with you because he is doing that. I can look at another woman with my husband and admire her for whatever reason, her shape, her hair, her features, her clothes, dress sense etc. Why do u get jealous??? opinions replied. thanx vc for ur reply. it may look silly but this topic is really true and bothers most women. My problem is with the wife of his near friend . she always wears tight outfits and it looks to me as if she wants to show off , and it's become like competition between us. whenver i happen to visit them i try to wear the outfits that reveal mine. i don't want to do it, but i hope u understand this. hw to face it ? vc replied. hey even i feel the same as u do, when ever i see a women/lady on the street or on tv who has boobs bigger than mine, i get jealous and even my hubby says the same that he is ok with mine, but still