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anyone's bil spoiling ur privacy??my unmarried bil will always comes to our home evevryweekend ..i am feeling that i am loosing privacy..i may b thinking worng..but also comes with us wherever we go..so i am now seriously thinking how to make that idiot undrestand that i hate hiz company. KUNJU LAKSHMI replied.
Dear sister,

What is your problem. Your BIL is simply coming to your house and how you loose privacy. In 24 hours you will get enough time to chat, do sex and everything with your husband.

ALL LADIES ARE SUPOORTING YOU BECAUSE THEY ARE SELFISH WHO THINK OF NUCLEAR LIFE. FOR THESE LADIES MIL,FIL,BIL & SIL ARE HEADACHES.

GO FOR COUNSELLING AND MAKE YOUR LIFE HAPPY.

THE REAL HAPPINESS OF LIFE IS TO LIVE WITH ALL, FULL FAMILY MEMBERS WHICH WILL NOT MAKE ANY PRESSURE, COLESTROL OR HEART ATTACK IN YOUR LIFE.

EXPERIENCE THIS FIRST BEFORE SCOLDING OR SHOUTING AT ME. pillai replied. yes sure i will try to tell him(sure)..thatz a very gud idea.that idiot if he talks itz ok.i never bother.but he come on friday evening.sit with grunt monkley face..rules the tv remote untill sunday evening..does not even smile at me. n talks to his brother so n so neighbour dil was so gud to il's..n they done thiz thing to il's were so gud etc...(indirectly attacking me n brainwashing my hubby that i am bad dil)whatever i prepare he asks for opposite.if prepare dosa he ask roto.if roti he asks idli..like that..n shameless creature he iz..always sit mum ,mood off,depressed n talks negative things.btw my il's r in andhra n we live i bangalore..they simply counts the things whatever i eat.n blmaes me for everyting n they always want my bil to disturb us Preeti replied. The next time your BIL comes over, just tell him in the middle of some conversation like \";oh, by the way..we won't be in next weekend...we are planning to go visit one of my friends for the whole day (think of some imaginary friend if you dont have one near by)\";...OR \";we get so less time to spend with each other (you and yr hubby)during the week..that we are thinking of going for a long drive on the weekend by ourselves...isnt that great!\";

Basically just make some excuse saying that you will not be at home...if you wait for the actual weekend till he drops in to say something about going out, he might tag along....but if you make it clear that you are planning to leave early and the plans include only you and your husband (you can keep smiling and say this nicely)...

Sometimes youngsters don't understand (specially in India) about the concept of privacy for a couple...you need to slowly bring him around to the idea that you look forward to the weekends for some alone time with your hubby..He might get the idea aftre you make excuses for a couple of weekends in a row...Oh and don't forget to tell your hubby not to butt in when you are saying all this to your BIL...:)

Hope this helps...

RJ replied. tell ur idiot BIL to move with his friends is he of marriagable age? then look out for a girl for him along with ur hubby dear.Dont let him probe too much otherwuse it will make ur life hell.suggest him to join some courses or a club etc.By the way where are ur MIL,FIL the mandatory problem creators???