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2006-08-12

Name: USA Girl Hi Tracey035.

How are you? Has your situation improved since the last time (and the only time) we spoke? I hope things have improved.

Sometimes it takes a very long time for us to see any change and we have to be more patient then we have been for anything in our life. Other times it just isn't meant to be, so we have to set it free. Set our minds free from the false of things working out with the inlaws the way we want. Some people just aren't rational about the whole thing, and as long as there is a beating pulse in their veins, they will continue to act this way towards you because to them it is right, it is justified, and it is what they know and do best, and what feels good to them. So we really can't do anything about it.

Please do write back. Are you interested in speaking on the phone again?

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Hi Tracey035.

How are you? Has your situation improved since the last time (and the only time) we spoke? I hope things have improved.

Sometimes it takes a very long time for us to see any change and we have to be more patient then we have been for anything in our life. Other times it just isn't meant to be, so we have to set it free. Set our minds free from the false of things working out with the inlaws the way we want. Some people just aren't rational about the whole thing, and as long as there is a beating pulse in their veins, they will continue to act this way towards you because to them it is right, it is justified, and it is what they know and do best, and what feels good to them. So we really can't do anything about it.

Please do write back. Are you interested in speaking on the phone again?
Tracy replied. Hey..Glad to hear from you. Things are great. We went on our cruise.It was beautifulWe had so much fun. It was nice to get away and have time alone. As far as the inlaws no contact. I am ok with that. What i want to do is learn more Indian culture and cooking. My husband isn't in to the culture at all. I want to know more so when we have a child I can teach it about the culture. Anyway gotta run talk soon Tracy replied. USA girl...Hey how are you? What are all the posts about? Sounds like some people just wanting to be mean. Anyway things are good. We are leaving for a cruise on 9/23. Can't wait...I am so looking forword to some alone time. No contact from the inlaws. I have thought about what you said and I am much more peaceful now. When you described the situation and said it's not what your inlaws say but what they don;t say. I needed to hear that. It is not worth my time or energy worrying about people who are like that. Life is to short.My husband and I love each other and that's just how it is. So about nursing school...When do you think you will get in? Keep trying it is a wonderful career. I really enjoyed talking to you on the phone and on here. I need to check in more. Talk to you soon USA Girl replied. I am suprised at all the responses this posting received. This posting was an invitation to Tracey to speak on the phone with me and catch up since the last time we spoke on the phone. This posting was an attempt to lure anyone else or any hateful responses. To all the negative responses, go post somewhere else. This was not intended for your eyes and I don't know why you would even care to read this posting.

Tracey if you are there, I would love to catch up with you. The university semester will be starting up again real soon. Right now I am away visiting my parents. It is nice to be away. I love my yearly escapades. My hubby was here too but had to leave earlier due to work. The university semester will be starting up again for me soon. I am still aiming for the nursing program but have to wait this year out because the program was full and my application was put on hold until the following year when space becomes available. I hope you are doing well in your life and your career and in your marriage. I hope things have improved for you regarding your Desi inlaws and I hope you are happy, healthy, and well. Until next time, take care my friend.

Tracy035 replied. Hey forrude,
Nice name you have..
How dare you talk back to bored.\";bored\"; is my friend..closer than that USAGIRL...
what is \";YOUR\"; problem now???..Whatever you have written say it to yourselves...
Now get lost & get a life. Tracy035 replied. Hey forrude,
Nice name you have..
How dare you talk back to bored.\";bored\"; is my friend..closer than that USAGIRL...
what is \";YOUR\"; problem now???..Whatever you have written say it to yourselves...
Now get lost & get a life. bored replied. Every 6 months or so do you have to post a message for Tracy035 asking how are you honey ...my sweetheart I understand you ..etc.,...Jobless Bacha..
Ok Listen..Tracy is not available ..She is busy.
Now get Lost.
If some one named Tracy035 replies to you then it is some fake.not Tracy035

2006-11-06

Name: Tracy
Subject:

Life

Hey..Glad to hear from you. Things are great. We went on our cruise.It was beautifulWe had so much fun. It was nice to get away and have time alone. As far as the inlaws no contact. I am ok with that. What i want to do is learn more Indian culture and cooking. My husband isn't in to the culture at all. I want to know more so when we have a child I can teach it about the culture. Anyway gotta run talk soon

2006-09-11

Name: Tracy
Subject:

Hey

USA girl...Hey how are you? What are all the posts about? Sounds like some people just wanting to be mean. Anyway things are good. We are leaving for a cruise on 9/23. Can't wait...I am so looking forword to some alone time. No contact from the inlaws. I have thought about what you said and I am much more peaceful now. When you described the situation and said it's not what your inlaws say but what they don;t say. I needed to hear that. It is not worth my time or energy worrying about people who are like that. Life is to short.My husband and I love each other and that's just how it is. So about nursing school...When do you think you will get in? Keep trying it is a wonderful career. I really enjoyed talking to you on the phone and on here. I need to check in more. Talk to you soon

2006-08-29

Name: USA Girl
Subject:

I am Back

I am suprised at all the responses this posting received. This posting was an invitation to Tracey to speak on the phone with me and catch up since the last time we spoke on the phone. This posting was an attempt to lure anyone else or any hateful responses. To all the negative responses, go post somewhere else. This was not intended for your eyes and I don't know why you would even care to read this posting.

Tracey if you are there, I would love to catch up with you. The university semester will be starting up again real soon. Right now I am away visiting my parents. It is nice to be away. I love my yearly escapades. My hubby was here too but had to leave earlier due to work. The university semester will be starting up again for me soon. I am still aiming for the nursing program but have to wait this year out because the program was full and my application was put on hold until the following year when space becomes available. I hope you are doing well in your life and your career and in your marriage. I hope things have improved for you regarding your Desi inlaws and I hope you are happy, healthy, and well. Until next time, take care my friend.

2006-08-16

Name: Tracy035
Subject:

Hey

Hey forrude,
Nice name you have..
How dare you talk back to bored.\";bored\"; is my friend..closer than that USAGIRL...
what is \";YOUR\"; problem now???..Whatever you have written say it to yourselves...
Now get lost & get a life.

2006-08-21

Name: been watching
Subject:

am unamused by games

Hey Tracy,

Dare I to assume that you're feeling harrassed by USA Girl? Coz you jumped in and defended Bored while managing to put USA Girl down. It's no secret that USA Girl posts you every so often and they do seem a bit needy so I can see why many people might not want someone like that contacting them but there are far nicer ways to go about it. Now either you DO know Bored or you ARE bored. Given the very limited sprinkling of Hindi I am assuming you ARE bored and should grow that backbone you want your husband to have and tell a person NICELY that you do not wish to be their friend. These things are always better handled with poise and grace.

2006-08-17

Name: forrude
Subject:

for tracy

your friend 'bored' ? huh !!!! Take it from me. After sometime u will be saying USA girl is better than 'bored'. At least she tried to ask u about your condition and bored has only selfish motives. You r so naive and immature, no wonder u r having so many IL probs. I sympathise with your husband and ILs. Now it is your and bored's turn to get lost completely from here. U do not deserve USA girl's friendship anyway, poor girl, she is wasting her time over u.

2006-08-16

Name: Tracy035
Subject:

Hey

2006-08-15

Name: bored
Subject:

jobless poeple

Every 6 months or so do you have to post a message for Tracy035 asking how are you honey ...my sweetheart I understand you ..etc.,...Jobless Bacha..
Ok Listen..Tracy is not available ..She is busy.
Now get Lost.
If some one named Tracy035 replies to you then it is some fake.not Tracy035

2006-08-18

Name: not tracy
Subject:

heeheehee

Bunch of Jobless People!!!.
While that real Tracy is somewhere safe & peacefull..you all zombies fight around here for nothing...

2006-08-15

#10

Name: forrude
Subject:

for bored

Hello bored, Here each of us has the freedom to use the message board to write what we want. So if USA girl is searching for someone what problem do u have ? Why do u have to read it, anyway it is not relevant to u. U do not have to be so rude to others. Just mind your own business and get a life.

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