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Joint Family:fil became enemy
2006-07-16
Name: help



we are settled in us .my fil staying with US.i was pregnant n i went to my mom's house in india for delivery at the same time my mil came to US .my sil live near to our home.my fil was always a very gud n supportive person to me..we even share jokes fun n i speak evevrythign to me so as him to me too..after my delivery i came back to US.my mil left US TO INDIA too..within that few months things have totallyc hanged..my fil was behaving too odd..he never cares to smile at me even..he even didinot have any food cooked for him by me.they all juzt totally ignored me n my baby.my mil juzt cries all the time with soem sentiments over baby..but never cares to look after baby..mil doesnot even knows to hold baby properly n always blame me that i dunt care my baby,i dunt feed my baby well.i dunt bath my baby well,i dunt hold my baby well etccccc.....then my fil now tottaly ignored me n he now believes that loking at my face iz sin...i am totally depressed..i love my fil like my own father..even thou others tried to get him away frm me he wud not have beleived what others say.now he totally ignores me..my hubby supports me always n he says that if people hurt us then why do we bother abt them..but i am tottaly hurt by my fil
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2006-07-17
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Anonymous Name: friend
Subject:  Take it easy



Its time to stop bothering about your FIL...You are nto going to live with him your entire life?!..The person with whom you are going to be with is yoru hubby & he is supportive!what else do you need?..Enjoy your baby at this early days.
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