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Hi,

My name is Aditi. I married 2 months before and now with my husband in USA. I work full-time. Ours was an arranged marriage. My husband is very fond of sex and sometimes there's no limit to it. Especially, everytime I get out of the restroom after taking bath he holds and embraces me firmly and kisses my parts. Also while cooking it has become his habit to touch my breasts, bite my neck and speak something vulgar. Sometimes it's exciting and warm but it really gets annoying because nowadays he does so most often every now and then when he's at home or during weekends. He hardly cares about my wishes and whether I am intersted in sex or whether I am really tired at the end of the days work. I have seen him watch porn sites and then he also made me watch some porn movies on computer and demands to emulate those scenes (like swallowing semen/master-slave sessions). To add to it he really speaks dirty and vulgar when he's having sex (like bit**h/wh**e). He refers to me with all dirty slangs he knows. I really do not want to hurt him everytime by rejecting his advances but I too feel important to convey him about his excessive urge and behaviour. I just want to know whether there are women who go through similar phase after marriage or is this behaviour is common in majority of men.

I would be grateful if anybody could suggest or advice me in this matter because I am really feeling a bit disturbed about all this.

Thanks,
Aditi Its your Friend replied. Not sure its common for men or not, as this is not, as none of my friends are doing this way.
Try to talk to him politely and express your likes and dislike. Make sure, your words/phrase is not hurting him at any cost.
Dont worry, thing will come to normal. And also remember that sexual excitement will become dormant slowly, which means frequency will be less when year pass on. So needless to worry.

But, I'm so happy that you are having excellent sex life unlike others, who came to this portal complaining pre-ejculation, small penis size etc..

In a way you are luck and always take the bright side of life.

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