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I need a sincere advice on this pls, Me and my husband live abroad with our 3yr old daughter.Last year my husband called hi cousin sister(Mami's daughter) to come and stay with us and work as they were having a financial problem. we halped her and she was staying withus like our little sister and never asked her to pay a single penny. some 8 months later my cousin(bua's son) came to work he stayed with us for 15days then he shifted to my other cousin's house. as my husband feared both are young and something might go wrong.he used to come to our during weekends and even use to come to have dinner with us in the evenings.
well after a month when my sister-laws bill came a lot we guessed, it came out to be true that both were involved with eachother.I also came to know that before my cousin came to my place,MY SIL had also sent a mail to him and took his email id from my mobile-inbox \";welcome and stuff\";.
well this always makes my feel irritated that they both betrayed us he was afrequent vistor to our house and they never let us know that all this was going on....
well i think there families have settled for the marriage but one question that still haunts me that why or what was the need for my SIL to send an email even before he came from india to a starngers sounds verystrange.
Please suggest .... wicks replied. as long as your husband is good to you dont just bother about other people.If your cousin and your husbands mamis daughter were having an affair you shouldnt have bothered.look out for your own life.help others but not at your own cost