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Hi All..i am 19 years old girl. I have a big problem related to periods and i need a solution to it.Actually, i have been facing the problem of periods for the last 4 years. till my +1, my periods were normal but suddenly, they got disturbed and whenevr peiods came, it gives me a lot of unbearable pain that i can't bear and rather i think at that time that its better to die. I consulted many doctors like MBBS, BDS etc., but they said that this is an internal problem and we can't check it until ur marriage. So, whnevr periods cum, due to immense pain, my parents call doctor and give me 2-3 injections which stops my periods n pain. But i know tht i will have to pay for it in the future bcoz, if i stop periods thn i will not b able to have a baby. and tht's my problem which makes my life miserable. Now, periods come in 1 month or 2 week or 1 week or regular, no fix timeings tht makes my life even more miserable and the worst part is that there no ejection or very rare n little ejection of blood during periods i don't even require pads.n this is happening for the last 3-4 years continously.Please tell me what should i do please i appreciate n thankful for all honest results tht changes my life and make me live a happy normal life. I also want a happy life with children and family.. PLEASE DO HELP ME IN THE NAME OF GOD, HUMANITY AND WOMEN. PLEASE DO HELP ME and give me a good life. PLEASE... Peace Lily replied. Dear Priya,

You will be fine, don' t worry. Be relaxed and consult a gynaecologist and test your hormone profile, both thyroid and ovarian hormones. An ultrasound of the pelvic organs will tell you if there are any ovarian cysts.
This could be due to harmonal imbalance too. Do have excess facial hair? - which is a sign of harmonal imbalance. Like i said earlier, don' t delay, IMMEDIATELY MEET A GOOD GYNAECOLOGIST.

Wishing you the best,
PL Ajay replied. Hello,

Please get yourself completely checked by a gyno. My wife was having same problem but during her periods, she bleeds a lot. Doctors said that it will be Ok after marriage... and dint take a look on actual problem.

After marriage, when I took her to a specialist, she was having ovarian cyst by then.

I would seriuosly suggest.. dont delay, and visit any good gyno.

I think, most of the doctors dont want/prefer to take such type of cases becuase of hymen (I guess, no offenses please). Because doctor may need to insert her finger in vaginal opening to feel inside. That's the reason why doctors avoid such cases before marriage of a girl.

These are my views and discuss it with any knowledgable person... preferably a doctor.

Best of luck!
Ajay