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Hi, Pls advice me for my problem.

My Husband very much interest in \";Blue films\"; and \";sex website\";. whenever he open the Internet he see that website. I don't understand is it normal or any abnormal.

Normally he is interested in sexy photos, etc....

I am worried so somuch. Pls advice me.......

Thanks. juvin replied. hi,

simeple thing is that mans love is driven by his sexual needs. if he has even some testosterone in him he is going to be sexually active. It is man's this habit of enjoying different sexual things that keeps his sexual instict alive. It is not that he is sexually satisfied by looking at these porn sites, but he becomes all the more active and this sexual energy is used up by him in loving you. What I mean is that when he pets you, loves you,etc etc sex is subconsiously in his mind. And more the subconsious sexual energy in him, more will he love you. Raising his sexual energy is beneficial to you since he will be more charged to love you. I dont know whether you understand what I have written.

after all one really gets bored up by eating the same dal and rice daily? right? same is the case with women. Dont you think he is going to get bored by having sex with the same woman everynight. That means he either stops doing sex with you or he does something that charges him up to have sex with you . So that is what he is doing!!! Since he is a civilised, commited married man he is not drifting to enjoy sex with other woman and you should give him due regard for that.

Let him enjoy what he is doing and see you will also get more love from him. It would have been great if you would also involve yourself in sex. I dont have any idea how women charge themseleves sexually. Probably some good experienced women psychologist can tell....
ProblemSolver replied. Your husband is trying to learn new methods of having sex on the net. No problem in it. It is his hobby. Why dont you join him in his hobby. Both of you cna have a great fun in it.

Its absolutely normal for him. What I think is surfing the nets on website is better than visiting the places in self. U know what I mean. People try to draw entertainment from such virtual media.

Theres absolutely no harm.
Cool down.
Be normal.
Enjoy

frm,
ProblemSolver rose replied. Really now i understand. Thank you for your advices.

Thanks Just advice! replied. Do you know how many \";sex web sites\"; are there in all. This a business which runs into billions of dollars each year - most of the web sites are minting money - alll because most men are like your husband.... Beleive me your husband is perfectly normal...

However i understand you being sad because of his habit. I think you should not take it personally, it is certainly does not prove that he does not love you or desire you.... try and understand his habit. Some couples watch blue films together and have a good time....
All the best rose replied. Hi, I am very depressed about this my husband's attitude. Pls tell me is it normal or abnormal........Or is this any alarm.....)