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my hubby always praises his collegues (ladies)with me that they are great. Even i am equally educated as he is and no way i am unintelligent, or less smart. I am pretty looking,slim,fair girl. Only thing is that i am still looking for a job and i am unemployed. prem replied. Hi,
)ne thing is not clear whether comparision is done by him or by u. if he compares and says u r not employed than u r argument is right. i think u have to introspect u r self as to whether u reacting to situation more than u r hubby. if u r comparing with the comments made by u r hubby it shows u feel insecured and inferior as compared to hubby. if u take in right way it might be a way he is trying to boost u r morale. it could be frusatrion on u r part of not being employed which might be a problem. Take things positvely as u r intellegent getting a job is matter o time. be patient and wait for u r chance Ajay® replied. Hey babe
Why dont you do the same babe... i am sure u r great at that..... ummm.. muaah anu replied. Do not worry, things will change. You need to make them change. I feel all men are like animals who require a lot of training to make them fun to live with. What is your reaction when he praises other ladies in front of you ? First tell him that you do not like it. If that does not stop him, every time he does that, you have to stop the conversation right then, right there and leave the room he is in. This will work. When he does not care how you feel, you need not worry about hurting his feelings too. Be very determined. I've been there too. I wish you all the best. poppy replied. Hi,

Think in simple terms and with cool mind. You are having a complex within you that you are \";beautiful smart etc etc\"; so ppl should praise you for that and since \";you are unemployed\"; so ppl should dislike you for that. REmove this complex from yourself. This is this complex that makes you things interpret in your own way. Whatever he says may carry no meaning at all unless you want to understand it in a particular way. ms replied. maybe he just want to motivate you..but if he compares you with his collegues than its wrong.well ur the homemaker... my advice keep looking for a job.ur talented and intelligent and most importantly confidant about urself so things are gonna settle down once u get into a job. have patience.all the best