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How is everyone doing? I m new to this site..We r trying for a baby for last 3 months..but not yet success..we have been married for 2yrs now. We were using condoms as contraceptive..Usually i m having a very painfull periods with ,stomach pain ,back pain vomiting n all.I met 2-3 Doctors with this same problem ,everyone said nothing to worry its common and will reduce or go after delivery . I m very much worried..How often we should do sex for getting pregnant..we tried both everyday method and last month everyother day method...but nothing worked out.Is this kinda things happend with every couple..? Can anyone Plz advice me..Thanks in advacne
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Hii everyone ,
How is everyone doing? I m new to this site..We r trying for a baby for last 3 months..but not yet success..we have been married for 2yrs now. We were using condoms as contraceptive..Usually i m having a very painfull periods with ,stomach pain ,back pain vomiting n all.I met 2-3 Doctors with this same problem ,everyone said nothing to worry its common and will reduce or go after delivery . I m very much worried..How often we should do sex for getting pregnant..we tried both everyday method and last month everyother day method...but nothing worked out.Is this kinda things happend with every couple..? Can anyone Plz advice me..Thanks in advacne
Mithu Acharya replied. Thanks everybody..I m really happy to hear all this loving advices..My usual periods cycle is 32-33 but this time i mean my last period (6th Oct),i got 6 days late. So i m confused which will be my ovulation day.I baught a ovulation kit ,but on which date should i start testing my ovulation ..there is seven tests in that packet .I m planning to start testing by 17th or 18th of this months.Is this Ok...thanka all take care
NP replied. Hello Mithu,
How are you? Hope not feeling bad.
There is nothing to worry about. No need to cry about anything. Try keeping tracks of you period...and i am sure this ovaluting method will work work you. Just keep track of your period & when you have your your period supppose that's on 12th october and you get regular period at the time if 30 days so that makes the center of 15 days....so that's 23,24,25,26,27.....those days you can have sexs with your husband & you could get pregnant, that means that your 30 days pregnancy & 15 days center of it & count 2 days in front of the center & 2 days back of the center....that's ovaluting. If you coluld try doing this method, it should work...
Best of Luck
Bye
Take care
& don't worry, be happy
juv replied. Hi Mithu,
Sweet little girl and so much pain ???? dont worry dear..millions of women become mothers and you surely will.
if you have some sort of blind faith, then go to one of those Nadi Astrologers and ask them when can you get a baby. If they tell you some time and you believe them then you will feel relaxed till that time period expires. Good solution and workable ( myself done it).
Next OPKit, follicular monitoring etc work so try them out.
We didnt have child for six months of trying and we were desperate after avoiding pregnancy for 3 years. then we wasted no time and went for follicular monitoring. Did sex on 1 day one in month and got pregnant. So there are methods ways and means to get pregnant. Think of worst case solution like test tube babies etc. One day you are going to have baby.
Now it is upto if you want to wait and let it happen naturally or by proven scientific methods. But there is nothing to cry or worry about? right?
To rule out any errors. ask you husband to get the sperm test done and do a pelvic ultrasound on 12th day of yours. If both things are ok then nothing to worry.
got it? so smile and have sex with you husband tonight with lots of enjoyment.
cheers
Mithu Acharya replied. Hii friend,
Thanks for the advice n how i can keep me kool while i m doing sex i was kool before we were planning to have a baby ..but now its automatically coming to my mind..i feel like crying and i used to pray during the time of intercourse...i dont know ..:-(..its not funny as always...bz all the time i m thinking abt a baby nowadays. I think the thought abt this fertile days,cervical mucus,ovulation n all making me more consious during this time.. Is it true try the ovulation predictor kit, hold and do sex only on that day it gives positive.(and next1 or 2 days too) Does doing this way will help? or is it kinda risky? I m hoping for the best..:) . Thanks take care
bye
Love,Mithu
Friend replied. Don't worry it will happen. You need to enjoy it and not think about the fact the only reason you are having sex is to make a baby...you are putting too much tension and stress on your body that it doesn't know how to react. So I want to u to forget about it and enjoy, relax and have fun, before you know it you will succeed. Good luck.
2004-10-13
#1
Name: Mithu Acharya Subject: Hii
Thanks everybody..I m really happy to hear all this loving advices..My usual periods cycle is 32-33 but this time i mean my last period (6th Oct),i got 6 days late. So i m confused which will be my ovulation day.I baught a ovulation kit ,but on which date should i start testing my ovulation ..there is seven tests in that packet .I m planning to start testing by 17th or 18th of this months.Is this Ok...thanka all take care
2004-10-12
#2
Name: NP Subject: Hello Mithu
Hello Mithu,
How are you? Hope not feeling bad.
There is nothing to worry about. No need to cry about anything. Try keeping tracks of you period...and i am sure this ovaluting method will work work you. Just keep track of your period & when you have your your period supppose that's on 12th october and you get regular period at the time if 30 days so that makes the center of 15 days....so that's 23,24,25,26,27.....those days you can have sexs with your husband & you could get pregnant, that means that your 30 days pregnancy & 15 days center of it & count 2 days in front of the center & 2 days back of the center....that's ovaluting. If you coluld try doing this method, it should work...
Best of Luck
Bye
Take care
& don't worry, be happy
2004-10-08
#3
Name: juv Subject: dont worry
Hi Mithu,
Sweet little girl and so much pain ???? dont worry dear..millions of women become mothers and you surely will.
if you have some sort of blind faith, then go to one of those Nadi Astrologers and ask them when can you get a baby. If they tell you some time and you believe them then you will feel relaxed till that time period expires. Good solution and workable ( myself done it).
Next OPKit, follicular monitoring etc work so try them out.
We didnt have child for six months of trying and we were desperate after avoiding pregnancy for 3 years. then we wasted no time and went for follicular monitoring. Did sex on 1 day one in month and got pregnant. So there are methods ways and means to get pregnant. Think of worst case solution like test tube babies etc. One day you are going to have baby.
Now it is upto if you want to wait and let it happen naturally or by proven scientific methods. But there is nothing to cry or worry about? right?
To rule out any errors. ask you husband to get the sperm test done and do a pelvic ultrasound on 12th day of yours. If both things are ok then nothing to worry.
got it? so smile and have sex with you husband tonight with lots of enjoyment.
cheers
2004-10-07
#4
Name: Mithu Acharya Subject: Thanks
Hii friend,
Thanks for the advice n how i can keep me kool while i m doing sex i was kool before we were planning to have a baby ..but now its automatically coming to my mind..i feel like crying and i used to pray during the time of intercourse...i dont know ..:-(..its not funny as always...bz all the time i m thinking abt a baby nowadays. I think the thought abt this fertile days,cervical mucus,ovulation n all making me more consious during this time.. Is it true try the ovulation predictor kit, hold and do sex only on that day it gives positive.(and next1 or 2 days too) Does doing this way will help? or is it kinda risky? I m hoping for the best..:) . Thanks take care
bye
Love,Mithu
2004-10-07
#5
Name: Friend Subject: don't worry
I know it's hard not to think about baby, I was in your shoes once, I was upset all the time and every time we had sex the baby would be on my mind. Than I just told myself maybe it was ment for us not to have kids, and I made myself believe that if it happens, god is watching us and he will help us, so what we did was we went away and enjoyed our little vacation and I was at that time not working and after our little vacation I found a job and we planed a trip to India with the parents and before you know it, with all this excitment about job, trip to India, I find out I am pregnant, so see if you get it off your mind it will happen. Yes, the ovulation prediction kits work, when you get a positive sign please have intercourse on that day or within the 12 hours of the positive sign and every otherday. Also when you start your period count 10 days from the day of your period and start having intercourse everyday or everyother day if you don't have a ovulation kit. So please relax and get the baby off your mind..Take care and keep me posted.
All the Best I will be praying for you.
2004-10-07
#6
Name: Friend Subject: don't worry
Don't worry it will happen. You need to enjoy it and not think about the fact the only reason you are having sex is to make a baby...you are putting too much tension and stress on your body that it doesn't know how to react. So I want to u to forget about it and enjoy, relax and have fun, before you know it you will succeed. Good luck.
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