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Miscarriage and Child Loss:rest after miscarriage
2010-01-11
Name: Vijaya Ayyala



Hi all!
I have miscarried and I was not sad in the hospital and near the doctor. I don' t know why but I felt that I lost the baby at 5 weeks because it was not developing well. So I was not very sad and the nurses were asking me questions on top of questions. I replied to them like a normal happy person and they were like trying to pull out the sadness or something from within me. But I was all normal and had the doctor do D & C on me. I am back home now. I slept for one night and since the next morning I feel so sad,so Void inside. I feel like a bad mommy. I don' t know how to explain the feelings I have inside me. I feel very very bad and extremely sad. I am so sad that I am not crying. Not even one tear is coming out. I want those tears so my bad feelings will go away. I waitied for this pregnancy for so long and I lost it in a flash. My entire life is so depressing. Now My life is more sad and is not helping me atall. I look like a normal person outside to my husband. So he is not even consouling me. I am sooo depressed. Beside the sad feeling, I am also feeling very painful in my stomach and the lower part of the body. So How much rest should I take. How should I take care of myself so that I will be healthy again and my uterus ia healthy to carry the future baby. Please help me , ladies. Please hear to my inner feelings and I feel Like life is a complete waste and I feel like it should end right now. But I am not so brave to take it away. I want to do something to escape this never before mental and physical pain. Please help me out sisters. Pleeease. Thanks in advance,
Vijaya.
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