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I was recently married and live with my in laws, BIL, SIL and their 2 kids. My inlaws are extremely nice people and I'm lucky to have them in my life. Unfortunately the opposite is true of my bhabhi. she is totally rude and disrespectful to my inlaws, she barely says hello, she doesn't do a stitch of work all day even though she doesn't work, and she tries to stir up trouble all the time. between her and i however, we have always been civil, probably because i have let things go and am quite tolerant, however my living conditions have become hard to deal with . i am tired all the time from working all day, and cleaning/cooking up when i get home, including her and the kids' mess. my husband and i would like to leave the house to our own place, but at the same time i feel sorry for my inlaws to have to put up with her on their own. what should i do? RR replied. I have a similar problem!! My FIL is not there. and my BIL and SIL think that they head the family and try to dictate everything. Problem is that we would like to move to a place near our work place and thats somewhat far away from the present place.. It takes us around 1 and half hours to reach office(Me and my hubby work at the same off). Because of this my MIL doesnt want to move with us as she is habitual to the present place and the people and thinks that she will be alone over there, more because I work and my SIL doesnt (I mean in office). and so, they are now dictating us not to move, although i am pregnant. They also want us to give them some around 10K every month if we do.. (since my BIL is not earning very well.. ). Dont know what to do. My MIL is \";kaan ki kachi\";. Whatever they say she supports them and when we tell her our problem she starts speaking like us.. fairy replied. Hey,
The solution is simple! Take your in-laws with you to your new house and let the lady be alone .Good luck!