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hi archie...

it's me again...the fetrile period in my last message which u told me i did exactly like that...but still no luck,...but for last few days..i m having some stomach pain and feeling like suffocated..when i visited dr. she told me my heart beat is increased she prescribed some mdedicines...but still i m not feeling comfortable pains in body are there...i though it could be sign of pregnancy...but today all was in vain i got my periods and having bad pain in stomach and backache.....u i have cycle of 28 days but this time i got my period early like in last month i had on 12 aug...and today is 6th sept...now can u suggest me abt my fertility period,,,,or some tips so that i should not miss this month's chance of conceiving....feeling shattered and totally stressed up....pls help archie Archie replied. Dear Montum,
I agree with your feelings. Yet, I must make you aware of some facts. YOu are harboring enemy \";stress\";. You must agree that you are overly thinking about ttc issue and getting stressed everyday. Not surprising that your ouvlation is getting affected and the whole cycle(s).
Montum those who get pregnant in no time never think of pregnancy, for most of them prgnancy come by surprise. Many of the couples while ttc horbore this enemy and kill their own time.

Montum, I am not giving a grandmother advice but there are a few things where medicine will fail. Remember, many times serious patients wants to see a particular Dr. because they feel comfortable with that Dr. and if they meet the same Dr. their 50% pain is subsided, the rest is done by medicines.

I can guide on fetile days based on regularity of cycles and length of the same. I am sure those frequent readers of this forum may have understood the way I calculate fertile days and can calculate by themselves. This calculation is not an absolute value. There are 100s of factor affecting ovulation and whole cycle, not to forget this is all Hormonal and they can be easily messed up while stressed or even physical over work.

You need to monitor your cycles at least for three months and thenknow how regular you are. Based on that I can re calculate fertile day for you. Your other best bet is OPK, choose that if that's possible and help yourslef to know exact two fertile days.

Nevertheless keep in mind there are only 20% chances of conceiving even if you do all right on exact time and both of you are healthy. Do not panic if the process fails even after following guidelines, I would not be surprised. We are talking 20% without involving stress, if you involve stress then you have no chance of conceiving. Sorry, if I sound strong, but you need to help yourself by calming down.

Hope you get my message in right spirit.
Archie