Planning a Baby  Discussion Forum

Hello everybody,
Like everyone in this forum I am also a victim of infertility.Trying since 3 yrs but in vain..I am seeing one Reproductive Endocrinologist in NY,USA.I stay in NJ.This is my second doc.was not satisfied with the first one..anyways my problems are ..my periods are totally irregular..I cant say when it' ll happen and how long it' ll be ..sometimes I spot continuously for a month or some time spot twice or thrice a month...I faced so many prob just bcoz of my irregular periods since I had it...went to may docs tried everything nothing worked for me...and now I' ve been diagnosed with PCOS hav cyst in right and left ovary..I dont ovulate at all..and watever tablets r prescribed (Provera,Clomid) nothing works for me..all this is making me totally disappointed but I never thot wat more was waiting for me...coz i was diagnosed with Endometrial Hyperplasia with Atypia ie my endometrial ining was the thickest they have ever seen which also has precancerous cells..they said there is 10 chance that it' ll bcome full cancer...so i had a D&C and was given Provera but soon aftr just 3 months It came back bcoming more thicker and Doc is totally scarred herself..she told me forget abt getting preg now ,it' s ur health wchih I am concetned abt now plus she told me I also have Hepatitis C...now I am totally shattered..I cant concentrate on my work..all i do is browsing and getting more and more info regarding this..I cant even share my heart ache 2 anyone so i poured it here..i feel i am a cursed girl..dont know wat will happen...am scarred to death...so my doc has referred me 2 a Cancer specialist..to top it all here I face so many problems to get an immediate appointment with the doctor in US....Dont know what 2 do..I was parying for a baby and c now I' ve so many problems ki dont know what not 2 prayer 2 God...dont know y he is doing this 2 me..am loosing hope..so scarred...pls guide me what i shud do.....all my dreams r blurring....and hus is crazy abt babies ..he is supportive but at he same time deeply hurt...dear frnds..pls help me 2 get thru this situation or anyone who had similar problems and if anyone can suggest the best RE in NY/NJ...I wud be grateful 2 u all for taking ur time and giving me any guidance...looking 4ward 2 ur advices...Rememebr me in ur paryers :( sunitha replied. hey mythili i heard rma is doing great in NJ they have good sucess rates check their website i also live very close by so it is easy for my testing i just have a slight case of pcos but that makes my cycle irregular my doc says IVF will solve all minor issues u should check it out too but i dont know how convenient it would be fr u to commute frm virginia to NJ but if u need any help i would be more than willing to do it fr u keep in touch .... BABY DUST TO U Sara replied. Hi Shamol,

I am very sorry for the things happening with you.Please dont loose hope.Everything will go fine very soon and I hope you get a good news soon

Regards,
Sara sunitha replied. hai shamol am so sorry ..ihave also been trying for 2 yrs no luck i have pcos too and clomid even iui did not work fr us i go to RMA in NJ it is good they really keep u updated try that place do not worry it will happen stress can make it worse i also live in nj ....
we could be friends and go thru with this journey together ...hope we will soon have ur bundles of joy together... sowdha replied. Hi,
I am really sorry to read your story. God only troubles good people but he will surely help you, pray to him. I had a baby after 11 years, after lot of treatment and lots of praying. Pray to god he will surely help you and i will also keep you in your prayers always. We all are your friends..take care

sowdha Vaylan replied. I' m sorry to hear your troubles. Here' s some advice -

1. First of all, calm down. Take things one at a time

2. Get a second opinion/doctor. Try Dr.Friedman of Northern Fertility in Philadelphia. It' s not far from NJ.

3. First and foremost try to get the \" cancer\" question resolved. If it is not cancer then you can relax. If it is cancer then there are some avenues open.

4. Now I am not a doctor by any means, but I think you should respond to injectables better than provera or clomid. With high doses there is a better chance of response. But for that you need to go to a real professional. Just like in India, in US too you have good doctors and great doctors. With complications you have you need to see someone who is an expert.

5. With today' s tech there are many options available - you can have your eggs frozen before you take of other problems, have your embryos frozen, even engage a GS or TS.
So, don' t worry, and take it a step at a time.Hope is everything in this situation.

Having the right RE makes all the difference.