Dearest Rajiv!!

After reading your that question on milestone-chart for first time, i had doubt that its a dumb question. \";Some milestones charts say this, some charts say that, which to refer?\"; Seemed a stupid question. But i gave u benefit of doubt for being a male (females hv better knowledge of babies).

... milestones chart mein itna confuse hone wali kya baat thi ... agar ek Chart mein ek average bachche ka roll-over hone ka time 3m hai ... then the baby would roll-over by max 5m!

Agar ek avg bachcha 7-8m mein crawl kar sakta hai ... to crawling time period shd be 6.5m to max max 8m ...

Usme Kya samaj mein nahi aaya?
Now, now. Exceptions and wider age-ranges are there for milestones. Some babies rollover at 6m, some sit later than 8th m, some dont crawl at all.

but we u were talking abt avg things.

But after seeing ur looong reply, i felt \";kya yaar, itni si baat nahi click ho rahi, leave it .. isko samjana mere bus ki baat nahi hai.\";

And when u wrote about USA temperatures going minus, phir doubt to pakka ho gaya ...
Arey yaar, i know abt US temp. Kya jo log India mein hai wo US jate nahi hai?
I had cut it short because i thought u wd understand you people have temperature controllers and we dont have. ..... And out of ego u were talking abt room heaters in delhi? Arey baba .... bijli kitni aati hai yahan, tum to dilli ke ho, maloom hi hoga! And how many can afford running room heater all day?

Chal phir bhi maan liya ....
per ek baat batao ...
India mein Toilet mein room-heater kaun leke jata hai???

Chalo... now lets talk abt \";receiving clear answers to ur questions\";!! Jahan tak mera khayal hai, the clear answer u got on \";milestone chart\"; was \";ask your Doctor\";. Right?

Smart way of tackling a stupid and confused question, without hurting, methinks.
Isse jada \";clear answer\"; ho hi nahi sakta tha !!!!!!

Anyways.
Thats all for now.
The stage is all yours.
Bhaiyon aur behno ... start throwing tamatars and andaas.
Apun to ja rela hai.

Waise, samajdar log reply nahi karenge.

From
U very well know who.
Who knows me better than u?

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P.S
I know I am misusing this board, people. And I am really sorry about it. Lekin meri bhi koi sahne ki limit hai yaar! Jab dekho tab rajiv-babu mera naam leke \";comment\"; karte rehte hain! Aur kehte hain ki main \";comment\"; karti hoon.

DOUBLE P.S.
Rajiv ji .... the selected icon for this post ... and agar Koi baat buri lagi ho
.... to samajna intentional tha !!

And Last but not the least P.S.
I AM THE SAME \";Ananya Mukherjee\";.
Yaad aaya naam? Hint: This is probably the clearest answer :) Anu replied. hi all, i don't want to get into this. but i read all the replies.
i feel personally that what rajiv said is worth thinking. it is true for any parents that for all small things we all get worried.in that making fun of someone is insulting and cheap.
i also read rajiv previous post. those ladies made fun of rajiv in his post, that he should change baby diapers etc i think rajiv should be the one who should feel offended.
but i appreciate rajiv patience and maturity in answering ananya reply and one who is mature parent can easily understand the confusion he was having and why he was worried.
if someone felt it was stupid there was no need of making fun of him and his wife.
all parents don't have enough information or knowledge.that is why i think we all are here. we all pay for doc fees and insurance coverage, but we get our things cleared here.

So everyones concerns and worries are different. for some they are stupid because they know the reasons and for some like me i would like to read and know how such milestones are decided.

rajiv, even though your post was stupid to someone i want to thank you for putting that question forward. it helped me in asking my ped about my baby delays. if i would not have read that post of rajiv and hetal reply to it, i would not have known that my baby is late in achieving milestones.i was relying on different website milestone charts and it said my baby is growing with normal phase. But the truth was he needed iron & calcium supplements.So even though his post was stupid, the reply to it made me ask my doctor about my child delays.Thanks Hetal, it helped me. i appreciate your coming forward to solve any kind of worries and respecting all parents concerns.

i agree to what rajiv said. at first ananya or the lady name in his prev post was poonam and simran. they replied and when he argued further and tried to clear the confusion, they made fun of him. i don't think a mature parent will do that.

i was shocked to see such a reply from a mother.that is all i wanted to share. Vrinda P replied. Good job. Was impressed to read your reply to \" Hetal the Vital\" . Dont worry about such people, please keep posting.
Bandar kya jane adrak ka swaad.
If only I knew, I would rather use those minutes to reply queries on this board but unfortunately I am a new mom possess less experience and information.